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Praise | Joyce Meyer | 10/1/18

Watch Praise | Joyce Meyer | 10/1/18
October 1, 2018
57:31

Matt & Laurie Crouch host Joyce Meyer.

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  • - ANNOUNCER: TONIGHT ON PRAISE FROM PALM BEACH, FLORIDA.
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  • NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLING AUTHOR AND BIBLE
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  • TEACHER JOYCE MEYER.
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  • - AND NOW MATT AND LAURIE CROUCH.
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  • - MATT CROUCH: WE ARE IN BEAUTIFUL SOUTH FLORIDA.
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  • WE ARE HERE IN PALM BEACH.
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  • JOYCE MEYER, WE HAVE A VERY IMPORTANT SUBJECT,
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  • HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN.
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  • I'M MARRIED TO ONE.
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  • I'VE BEEN MARRIED TO HER FOR 33 YEARS.
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  • IT'S AN IMPORTANT SUBJECT TO ME.
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  • HOW ARE WE GOING TO UNPACK THIS, AND WHAT
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  • EXACTLY ARE WE TALKING ABOUT?
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  • - JOYCE MEYER: WELL, I'LL PROBABLY TELL A
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  • LITTLE BIT ABOUT MY STORY, BUT FIRST OF ALL,
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  • I DON'T EVEN KNOW HOW MANY PEOPLE WHAT YOUR
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  • SOUL IS.
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  • YOUR SOUL IT'S YOUR MIND, YOUR WILL, AND YOUR
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  • EMOTIONS, AND SO IT'S ALL ABOUT THE WAY YOU THINK
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  • AND THE WAY YOU FEEL AND THE DECISIONS
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  • THAT YOU MAKE.
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  • AND SO MANY PEOPLE LOOK GREAT ON THE OUTSIDE, BUT
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  • THEY'RE CARRYING AROUND A LOT OF WOUNDS ON THE
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  • INSIDE, AND THEY ALWAYS SHOW UP THE MOST IN
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  • RELATIONSHIPS.
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  • A LOT OF PEOPLE THAT HAVE BEEN HURT BY SOMEONE OR
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  • ABUSED OR REJECTED OR MISTREATED THEY END UP
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  • NOT LIKING THEMSELVES, AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE
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  • YOURSELF, YOU CAN'T GET ALONG WITH OTHER PEOPLE.
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  • SO YOU'RE ALWAYS TRYING TO GET THEM TO FIX YOU.
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  • YOU WANT THEM TO MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD.
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  • AND REALLY THE BOTTOM LINE IS NOBODY CAN DO
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  • THAT EXCEPT GOD, AND HE WILL BUT YOU HAVE
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  • TO LET HIM.
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  • YOU HAVE TO GET INTO AGREEMENT WITH HIM.
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  • YOU KNOW, THERE'S SO MANY COMPONENTS TO THIS, AND
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  • TO BE HONEST IF SOMEBODY'S WOUNDED REAL
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  • DEEPLY IN THEIR SOUL, IT'S NOT SOMETHING
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  • THEY'RE GOING TO GET OVER OVERNIGHT.
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  • THERE'S GOING TO BE STUDYING THE WORD AND
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  • OBEYING GOD, AND SOME PEOPLE NEED SOME
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  • COUNSELING, BUT THERE'S NOTHING BETTER THAN BEING
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  • HEALTHY ON THE INSIDE.
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  • AND THE BEST GIFT REALLY THAT YOU CAN GIVE ANYBODY
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  • IS A HEALTHY YOU BECAUSE TO BE MARRIED TO SOMEONE
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  • THAT'S ALL BROKEN INSIDE THAT I FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE
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  • TO CONSTANTLY BE CAREFUL AND LIKE YOUR WALKING ON
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  • EGG SHELLS AND YOU CAN'T HURT THEIR FEELINGS AND
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  • YOU CAN'T CONFRONT THEM ABOUT ANYTHING,
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  • THEY'RE MOODY.
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  • I REMEMBER MY HUSBAND SAYING I USED TO DRIVE
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  • DOWN THE ROAD AT NIGHT THINKING I WONDER WHAT
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  • SHE'LL BE LIKE TONIGHT.
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  • AND THAT'S SAD.
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  • BUT I'M EVIDENCE THAT AS WELL AS LOTS OF OTHER
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  • PEOPLE THAT YOU CERTAINLY CAN BE HEALED.
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  • IT REQUIRES FACING SOME TRUTH.
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  • IT REQUIRES NOT BLAMING YOUR BEHAVIOR ON WHAT
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  • HAPPENED TO YOU.
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  • IT REQUIRES NOT FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF.
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  • THERE'S ONE CHAPTER IN THE BOOK THAT I WROTE
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  • THAT SAYS NO PARKING AT ANY TIME.
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  • AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE DO
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  • IS THEY PARK THEY POINT OF THEIR PAIN, AND THEY
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  • NEVER GO PAST THAT.
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  • EVERYTHING IN THEIR LIFE FROM THAT POINT ON IS
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  • COLORED BY WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM AND THE PAIN
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  • THEY HAD.
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  • AND WE DON'T HAVE TO LIVE LIKE THAT.
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  • - A FEW YEARS AGO YOU WROTE BEAUTY FOR ASHES.
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  • AND HOW IS THIS THE DEEPER DIG?
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  • BECAUSE SIMILAR SUBJECT MATTER IF NOT THE EXACT
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  • SUBJECT MATTER BUT IT'S DEEPER.
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  • HOW IS THIS BOOK DIFFERENT THAN
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  • BEAUTY FOR ASHES.
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  • - WELL, FIRST OF ALL I HAVE 25 MORE YEARS
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  • EXPERIENCE THAN I HAD WHEN I WROTE BEAUTY FOR
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  • ASHES, AND I'VE DEALT WITH A LOT OF DIFFERENT
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  • PEOPLE AND DEALT WITH MYSELF OVER THE YEARS.
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  • SO YOU SAID, IT'S A DEEPER DIG.
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  • IT GOES DEEPER AND SHARES MORE OF WHAT I'VE LEARNED
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  • OVER THE YEARS WHICH HAS BEEN A GREAT DEAL.
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  • THE GOOD THING ABOUT GOD IS WE NEVER STOP
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  • LEARNING, AND I STILL OCCASIONALLY WILL SEE
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  • THINGS CROP UP IN ME THAT I KNOW ARE A RESULT OF
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  • THE ABUSE I HAD IN MY CHILDHOOD, BUT THE THING
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  • THAT I SAY NOW IS I DON'T HAVE TO JUST REACT.
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  • I CAN ACT ON WHAT I KNOW GOD HAS TOLD ME.
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  • - HAVE YOU LEARNED A LOT?
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  • WERE YOU SURPRISED -I MEAN, DID YOU READ BEAUTY
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  • FOR ASHES AGAIN?
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  • BECAUSE THAT TOLD YOUR PERSONAL STORY, A LOT OF
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  • YOUR PERSONAL STORY.
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  • HOW MANY YEARS HAS IT BEEN SINCE THAT?
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  • - PROBABLY 25.
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  • - 25.
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  • WERE YOU SURPRISED HOW FAR YOU'D COME EVEN FROM
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  • THAT BOOK?
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  • - WELL, WHEN I THINK BACK THE WAY I WAS I
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  • MEAN, THERE'S NO TELLING HONESTLY HOW MANY TIMES I
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  • WOULD HAVE BEEN MARRIED AND DIVORCED IF I
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  • WOULDN'T HAVE LET GOD WORK IN MY LIFE AND
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  • HEAL ME.
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  • AND THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS TO SO MANY PEOPLE.
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  • THEY JUST GO THROUGH ONE RELATIONSHIP AFTER
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  • ANOTHER AFTER ANOTHER.
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  • AND OF COURSE THE FIRST TIME I GOT MARRIED I
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  • MARRIED THE FIRST GUY THAT CAME ALONG BECAUSE I
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  • REALLY THOUGHT NOBODY WOULD EVER WANT ME.
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  • AND I KNEW DEEP DOWN INSIDE IT WAS A MISTAKE
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  • BECAUSE HE HAD EVEN MORE PROBLEMS THAN ME AND
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  • SADLY, THAT'S WHAT A LOT OF TIMES HURTING WOUNDED
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  • TROUBLED PEOPLE MARRY OTHER HURTING
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  • TROUBLED PEOPLE.
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  • AND I SAY JOKINGLY BUT IT'S TRUE, THEY GIVE EACH
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  • OTHER TROUBLE AND THEN THEY HAVE KIDS AND DUMP
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  • ALL THEIR TROUBLES ON THEM, AND THEN IT JUST
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  • GOES FROM GENERATION TO GENERATION.
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  • BUT YOU DON'T HAVE TO LIVE AFFECTED BY
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  • YOUR PAST.
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  • GOD SAYS WE CAN LET GO OF THE PAST.
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  • AND OF COURSE THE FIRST THING AND IT'S PROBABLY
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  • THE HARDEST THING IS YOU CANNOT GO FORWARD UNTIL
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  • YOU FORGIVE.
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  • - WOW.
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  • - AND THERE'S SO MANY PEOPLE, SO MANY
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  • CHRISTIANS THAT ARE STILL MAD AND I MEAN, I CAN GO
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  • JUST ABOUT ANYWHERE AND DO A SERMON ON
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  • FORGIVENESS AND ASK HOW MANY PEOPLE STILL NEEDED
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  • TO FORGIVE SOMEBODY.
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  • AND THERE'S GOING TO BE 80% OF THE PEOPLE THAT
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  • LIFT THEIR HAND.
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  • AND I READ SOMETHING -- YESTERDAY I HEARD THIS
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  • THIS ACTUALLY.
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  • IT WAS IN A SHOW I WAS WATCHING ON TV BUT I
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  • THOUGHT THAT IS A GREAT STATEMENT.
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  • HE SAID YOU'RE NEVER ANY WEAKER THAN WHEN YOU'RE
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  • ANGRY OR WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY YOU'RE WEAKER THAN
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  • AT ANY OTHER TIME IN YOUR LIFE.
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  • AND I THINK SATAN JUST USES ANGER AND STRIFE AND
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  • BITTERNESS AND RESENTMENT AND UNFORGIVENNESS TO
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  • KEEP PEOPLE IN PRISON AND I ALWAYS SAY WHAT'S THE
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  • POINT IN BEING MAD AT SOMEBODY THAT'S OUT
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  • HAVING A GOOD TIME AND DON'T EVEN CARE THAT
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  • YOU'RE UPSET?
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  • SO YOU'RE REALLY JUST HURTING YOURSELF, SO
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  • EVERYTHING GOD SAYS ABOUT FORGIVING PEOPLE IS
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  • REALLY LIKE YOU'RE NOT DOING THEM A FAVOR.
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  • YOU'RE DOING YOURSELF A FAVOR WHEN YOU FORGIVE.
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  • AND THEN WHEN YOU DO THAT, YOU RELEASE GOD TO
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  • DEAL WITH THOSE PEOPLE, AND IT IS A FEARSOME
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  • THING TO FALL INTO THE HANDS OF A LIVING GOD.
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  • AND IT'S NOT SOMETHING YOU FEEL.
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  • IT'S A DECISION THAT YOU MAKE.
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  • AND GOD SAYS PLAINLY YOU PRAY FOR THEM.
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  • YOU BLESS AND DO NOT CURSE THEM.
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  • AND SO MOST PEOPLE JUST TRY TO NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT
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  • A PERSON THAT'S HURT THEM ANYMORE, AND THAT'S NOT
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  • EVEN THE POINT.
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  • THE POINT IS TO MAKE THE DECISION TO FORGIVE WITH
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  • GOD'S HELP, AND THEN WHEN YOU START PRAYING FOR
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  • SOMEBODY, YOU WON'T HAVE BAD FEELINGS TOWARD THEM
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  • FOR VERY LONG IF YOU REALLY PRAY FOR THEM.
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  • AND I THINK THAT'S WHAT PEOPLE DON'T DO.
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  • THEY DON'T PRAY.
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  • AND WE THINK WELL, I DON'T WANT TO PRAY FOR
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  • THEM TO BE BLESSED.
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  • I DON'T WANT THEM TO BE BLESSED BUT THE FIRST
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  • THING GOD WILL START BLESSING THEM WITH
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  • IS TRUTH.
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  • - THERE IT IS.
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  • - SO WE GET ALL MIXED UP.
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  • WELL, I DON'T WANT THEM TO BE BLESSED.
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  • WELL, I UNDERSTAND THAT.
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  • I DIDN'T WANT MY ENEMIES TO BE BLESSED EITHER, BUT
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  • THEN GOD SHOWED ME THE FIRST THING I COULD BLESS
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  • THEM WITH IS TRUTH IF YOU PRAY FOR THEM.
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  • AND GOD IS OUR VINDICATOR.
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  • WE CAN'T VINDICATE OURSELF.
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  • - I HEARD A DEFINITION OF FORGIVENESS AND I WANT
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  • YOU TO CORRECT IT OR ADD TO IT, THAT YOU DON'T
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  • CARE ANYMORE WHETHER OR NOT THE PERSON OR PEOPLE
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  • FACE CONSEQUENCES FOR WHAT THEY DID.
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  • - I DO THINK WHEN YOU TOTALLY FORGIVE, AND I
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  • MIGHT EVEN SAY I THINK MAYBE THAT TOTAL
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  • FORGIVENESS COMES IN DEGREES.
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  • I SAID THE OFFICIAL I FORGIVE YOU PRAYER
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  • BECAUSE I KNEW GOD WANTED ME TO, BUT I STILL DID
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  • NOT WANT THE BLESS YOUR ENEMIES PART WAS NOT
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  • SOMETHING THAT I WAS TOO INTERESTED IN.
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  • AND I ONLY SAW MY MOM AND DAD WHEN I ABSOLUTELY HAD
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  • TO FOR THE SHORTEST AMOUNT OF TIME THAT I
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  • COULD SEE THEM.
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  • BUT AS THEY STARTED GETTING OLDER AND LESS
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  • ABLE TO CARE FOR THEMSELVES, YOU KNOW, GOD
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  • WANTED ME TO DO WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS TO DO WHICH
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  • WAS TAKE CARE OF THEM.
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  • WELL, I DIDN'T WANT TO TAKE CARE OF THEM.
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  • I DIDN'T EVEN THINK IT WAS FAIR FOR GOD TO
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  • EVEN ASK ME.
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  • AND MY FIRST THING TO GOD WAS WELL, THEY NEVER DID
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  • ANYTHING FOR ME.
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  • AND HE SAID, WELL, YOU ARE BREATHING SO AT LEAST
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  • THEY GAVE ME LIFE.
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  • THEY PUT CLOTHES ON MY BACK AND SENT ME
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  • TO SCHOOL.
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  • AND THEN TAKING THOSE STEPS OF OBEDIENCE TO
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  • MOVE THEM CLOSER TO WHERE I WAS AND MADE SURE THEY
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  • GOT TO THEIR DOCTOR'S APPOINTMENTS AND MAKE
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  • SURE THEIR GRASS WAS MOWED AND I DIDN'T THE
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  • TIME TO DO ALL THAT BECAUSE OF MINISTRY SO IT
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  • ENDED UP COSTING A LOT OF MONEY THAT WE DIDN'T HAVE
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  • AT THE TIME.
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  • BUT ULTIMATELY MY DAD ENDED UP GETTING SAVED
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  • THROUGH THE LOVE THAT WE SHOWED HIM BECAUSE HE
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  • KNEW THAT HE DID NOT DESERVE IT.
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  • AND THE BIBLE TELLS US TO DO THAT.
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  • WHY?
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  • TO SHOW THAT WE'RE LIKE OUR HEAVENLY FATHER.
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  • - WHAT JOURNEY ARE YOU TAKING SOMEONE THROUGH IN
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  • THIS BOOK?
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  • - WELL, WHAT I WOULD HOPE IS THAT INITIALLY,
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  • YOU KNOW, LIKE PRETTY SOON THEY WOULD GET SOME
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  • REAL REVELATION ABOUT THE KIND OF LIFE THEY'RE
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  • LIVING COMPARED TO THE KIND OF LIFE THAT GOD
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  • WANTS THEM TO LIVE.
  • 00:09:52.000 --> 00:09:56.120
  • YOU KNOW, IT'S LIKE I USE AN EXAMPLE ABOUT SOME OF
  • 00:09:56.140 --> 00:10:00.260
  • THE EQUIPMENT THAT WE HAVE TODAY, LIKE YOUR
  • 00:10:00.280 --> 00:10:03.120
  • PHONE OR YOUR COMPUTER.
  • 00:10:03.140 --> 00:10:05.200
  • THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS THAT I COULD DO ON MY
  • 00:10:05.220 --> 00:10:08.040
  • COMPUTER BUT I WON'T TAKE THE TIME TO LEARN
  • 00:10:08.060 --> 00:10:11.080
  • HOW TO DO THEM.
  • 00:10:11.100 --> 00:10:13.100
  • AND SO I FUMBLE THROUGH SOMETIMES AND MAKE A
  • 00:10:13.120 --> 00:10:16.080
  • PROJECT HARDER THAN IT HAS TO BE BECAUSE I DON'T
  • 00:10:16.100 --> 00:10:18.130
  • WANT TO LEARN HOW TO WORK THE STUFF.
  • 00:10:18.150 --> 00:10:23.010
  • WELL, WHAT KIND OF A LIFE DID JESUS DIE FOR US
  • 00:10:23.030 --> 00:10:26.020
  • TO HAVE?
  • 00:10:26.040 --> 00:10:28.120
  • DO YOU WANT TO HAVE THE BEST LIFE YOU CAN HAVE OR
  • 00:10:28.140 --> 00:10:31.060
  • DO YOU WANT TO JUST BE A CHRISTIAN WHO GOES TO
  • 00:10:31.080 --> 00:10:33.070
  • CHURCH EVERY WEEK AND MAYBE DOES A FEW NICE
  • 00:10:33.090 --> 00:10:36.140
  • THINGS BUT YOU'RE MISERABLE ON THE INSIDE
  • 00:10:36.160 --> 00:10:40.120
  • ALL THE TIME?
  • 00:10:40.140 --> 00:10:42.140
  • YOU KNOW, IT'S ONE THING TO BE A MISERABLE SINNER.
  • 00:10:42.160 --> 00:10:44.110
  • IT'S ANOTHER THING TO BE A MISERABLE BELIEVER.
  • 00:10:44.130 --> 00:10:46.170
  • JESUS DIDN'T DIE SO WE COULD JUST LIMP ALONG
  • 00:10:46.190 --> 00:10:48.010
  • THROUGH LIFE.
  • 00:10:48.030 --> 00:10:49.280
  • HE WANTS US TO HAVE A GREAT LIFE, SO THAT'S ONE
  • 00:10:50.000 --> 00:10:51.220
  • OF THE CHAPTERS UP IN THE FRONT IS LIVING THE BEST
  • 00:10:51.240 --> 00:10:54.210
  • LIFE THAT'S AVAILABLE TO YOU.
  • 00:10:54.230 --> 00:10:59.060
  • SO I JUST SAID THAT THEY COME OUT WITH A NEW
  • 00:10:59.080 --> 00:11:02.250
  • PHONE, YOU CAN'T EVEN HARDLY GET USED TO THE
  • 00:11:02.270 --> 00:11:05.050
  • ONE YOU'VE GOT AND THEY'VE GOT A NEW ONE.
  • 00:11:05.070 --> 00:11:07.100
  • BUT EVERYBODY WANTS TO GET THE NEWEST UPGRADE,
  • 00:11:07.120 --> 00:11:10.170
  • SO WHY DON'T WE WANT TO GET THE NEWEST UPGRADED
  • 00:11:10.190 --> 00:11:12.250
  • LIFE THAT WE CAN HAVE?
  • 00:11:12.270 --> 00:11:15.030
  • PEOPLE STAND IN LINE ALL NIGHT TO BE THE FIRST IN
  • 00:11:15.050 --> 00:11:17.190
  • LINE TO GET SOME KIND OF AN UPGRADE FOR THEIR
  • 00:11:17.210 --> 00:11:20.100
  • PHONE BUT DON'T WANT TO PUT IN THE TIME AND
  • 00:11:20.120 --> 00:11:24.170
  • EFFORT TO UPGRADE OUR LIFE.
  • 00:11:24.190 --> 00:11:28.130
  • SO I WOULD HOPE PEOPLE WOULD SEE WELL, THERE'S
  • 00:11:28.150 --> 00:11:30.090
  • APPARENTLY A LOT MORE AVAILABLE TO ME THAN WHAT
  • 00:11:30.110 --> 00:11:31.240
  • I'M EXPERIENCING IN MY LIFE.
  • 00:11:31.260 --> 00:11:34.030
  • AND THEY WOULD JUST SAY TO GOD, I WANT WHAT YOU
  • 00:11:34.050 --> 00:11:37.150
  • WANT FOR ME.
  • 00:11:37.170 --> 00:11:39.080
  • BUT IT'S NOT GOING TO BE EASY.
  • 00:11:39.100 --> 00:11:42.220
  • IT'S NOT ALWAYS GOING TO BE COMFORTABLE.
  • 00:11:42.240 --> 00:11:44.290
  • AND IT'S GOING TO TAKE TIME.
  • 00:11:45.010 --> 00:11:47.170
  • SO I WOULD HOPE BY THE END OF IT PEOPLE WOULD BE
  • 00:11:47.190 --> 00:11:50.250
  • READY TO START ON A JOURNEY OF HEALING.
  • 00:11:50.270 --> 00:11:53.230
  • THAT REQUIRES DIFFERENT THINGS FOR
  • 00:11:53.250 --> 00:11:56.040
  • DIFFERENT PEOPLE.
  • 00:11:56.060 --> 00:11:58.170
  • LIKE FOR SOME PEOPLE, THAT MAY INVOLVE SOME
  • 00:11:58.190 --> 00:12:01.000
  • PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING.
  • 00:12:01.020 --> 00:12:03.130
  • FOR SOME PEOPLE IT MAY INVOLVE BEING IN A
  • 00:12:03.150 --> 00:12:05.240
  • RECOVERY GROUP.
  • 00:12:05.260 --> 00:12:07.250
  • YOU KNOW, FOR SOME PEOPLE IT MAY BE JUST TELLING
  • 00:12:07.270 --> 00:12:11.130
  • SOMEBODY WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM.
  • 00:12:11.150 --> 00:12:13.140
  • SO MANY PEOPLE THAT HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED
  • 00:12:13.160 --> 00:12:16.020
  • SPEND THEIR WHOLE LIFE AND DON'T TELL ANYBODY OR
  • 00:12:16.040 --> 00:12:19.070
  • SOMEBODY MAYBE WHOSE HAD AN ABORTION AND THEY'RE
  • 00:12:19.090 --> 00:12:21.280
  • STILL HURTING FROM THAT.
  • 00:12:22.000 --> 00:12:24.030
  • YOU KNOW, OUR SECRETS MAKE US SICK.
  • 00:12:24.050 --> 00:12:25.250
  • THINGS YOU HIDE ON THE INSIDE AND ARE AFRAID FOR
  • 00:12:25.270 --> 00:12:25.290
  • ANYBODY TO FIND OUT THEY KEEP YOU IN FEAR.
  • 00:12:27.250 --> 00:12:30.280
  • - DO YOU THINK IT'S MORE PAINFUL -- I THINK PEOPLE
  • 00:12:31.000 --> 00:12:34.130
  • GET STUCK BECAUSE THEY THINK MAN, IF I TELL
  • 00:12:34.150 --> 00:12:38.110
  • ANYBODY AND IF I START TALKING ABOUT THIS AND
  • 00:12:38.130 --> 00:12:41.120
  • FACING MY REALITY, MY PAST, IT'S GOING TO BE
  • 00:12:41.140 --> 00:12:47.030
  • PAIN ALL OVER AGAIN FOR ME.
  • 00:12:47.050 --> 00:12:49.010
  • HOW DO WE GET PAST THAT?
  • 00:12:49.030 --> 00:12:51.010
  • - WELL, I'D SAY THERE'S TWO KINDS OF PAIN.
  • 00:12:51.030 --> 00:12:53.080
  • YOU CAN EITHER.
  • 00:12:53.100 --> 00:12:55.170
  • YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE SOME PAIN EITHER WAY.
  • 00:12:55.190 --> 00:12:57.280
  • IT'S EITHER THE PAIN OF GETTING FREE BY
  • 00:12:58.000 --> 00:12:59.280
  • ULTIMATELY LEAVES YOU WITHOUT THE PAIN OR IT'S
  • 00:13:00.020 --> 00:13:03.180
  • THE PAIN OF STAYING THE SAME WAY YOU ARE THE REST
  • 00:13:03.200 --> 00:13:06.240
  • OF YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:13:06.260 --> 00:13:08.200
  • SO THAT'S SOMETHING THAT -- - TWO BIG FEARS.
  • 00:13:08.220 --> 00:13:10.270
  • - YEAH.
  • 00:13:10.290 --> 00:13:12.190
  • I WOULD REALLY LIKE THE VIEWERS TO THINK ABOUT
  • 00:13:12.210 --> 00:13:14.070
  • WHAT I JUST SAID.
  • 00:13:14.090 --> 00:13:16.150
  • DO YOU REALLY WANT TO STAY THE SAME AS YOU ARE
  • 00:13:16.170 --> 00:13:20.070
  • THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
  • 00:13:20.090 --> 00:13:22.210
  • I MEAN, IS THAT REALLY WHAT YOU WANT?
  • 00:13:22.230 --> 00:13:25.260
  • OR DO YOU WANT TO CHANGE?
  • 00:13:25.280 --> 00:13:27.210
  • YOU KNOW, MOST PEOPLE ARE GOING TO SAY I WANT TO
  • 00:13:27.230 --> 00:13:30.010
  • CHANGE, BUT WHAT THEY WANT IS THEY WANT GOD TO
  • 00:13:30.030 --> 00:13:32.240
  • CHANGE THEM, AND SOMETHING I'VE
  • 00:13:32.260 --> 00:13:35.220
  • DISCOVERED, MATT AND LAURIE, JUST REALLY A LOT
  • 00:13:35.240 --> 00:13:39.180
  • IN THE LAST COUPLE OF YEARS.
  • 00:13:39.200 --> 00:13:41.260
  • I DON'T KNOW WHY IT TOOK ME THIS LONG TO KNOW THIS
  • 00:13:41.280 --> 00:13:43.280
  • AS LONG AS I'VE BEEN PREACHING, BUT WE SAY
  • 00:13:44.000 --> 00:13:46.100
  • THAT WE WANT THINGS BUT WE DON'T WANT TO DO WHAT
  • 00:13:46.120 --> 00:13:49.200
  • WE NEED TO DO TO GET THERE.
  • 00:13:49.220 --> 00:13:52.270
  • WHEN YOU FEEL SO WRONG, YOU WANT SOMEBODY ELSE TO
  • 00:13:52.290 --> 00:13:58.130
  • CONSTANTLY BE TELLING THAT YOU'RE RIGHT, AND
  • 00:13:58.150 --> 00:14:02.080
  • SOONER OR LATER PEOPLE ARE GOING TO BE TIRED OF
  • 00:14:02.100 --> 00:14:05.050
  • KEEPING YOU FIXED.
  • 00:14:05.070 --> 00:14:09.150
  • - WOUNDS OF THE HEART, EVERY WOMAN HAS THEM.
  • 00:14:09.170 --> 00:14:11.290
  • THEY'RE UNSEEN, BUT EVERY BIT AS REAL AS
  • 00:14:12.010 --> 00:14:14.160
  • PHYSICAL WOUNDS.
  • 00:14:14.180 --> 00:14:16.260
  • REJECTION, BETRAYAL, ABANDONMENT AND EVEN
  • 00:14:16.280 --> 00:14:19.120
  • ABUSE CAN LEAVE LASTING SCARS.
  • 00:14:19.140 --> 00:14:23.150
  • AND WHEN YOU CARRY THOSE HURTS THROUGH LIFE THEY
  • 00:14:23.170 --> 00:14:26.020
  • IMPACT ALL YOUR MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIPS
  • 00:14:26.040 --> 00:14:28.130
  • AND KEEP YOU FROM EXPERIENCING TRUE HEALING
  • 00:14:28.150 --> 00:14:31.130
  • AND THE GOOD LIFE GOD WANTS FOR YOU.
  • 00:14:31.150 --> 00:14:33.280
  • IN HER BRAND-NEW BOOK HEALING THE SOUL OF A
  • 00:14:34.000 --> 00:14:37.140
  • WOMAN, HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS,
  • 00:14:37.160 --> 00:14:40.100
  • JOYCE MEYER IS TRANSPARENT AND REVEALS HER OWN
  • 00:14:40.120 --> 00:14:43.270
  • JOURNEY OF HURT TO HEALING AND HOW YOU CAN
  • 00:14:43.290 --> 00:14:46.130
  • EXPERIENCE THE SAME AMAZING FREEDOM.
  • 00:14:46.150 --> 00:14:49.150
  • - IT'S VERY PAINFUL AND DIFFICULT TO GO THROUGH
  • 00:14:49.170 --> 00:14:51.230
  • LIFE WITH A WOUNDED SOUL, BUT I LEARNED THAT GOD
  • 00:14:51.250 --> 00:14:54.110
  • COULD HEAL EVEN MY DEEPEST HURTS IF I WOULD
  • 00:14:54.130 --> 00:14:57.020
  • JUST OPEN MY HEART UP AND LET HIM IN.
  • 00:14:57.040 --> 00:15:00.100
  • - THIS MONTH, TBN WANTS TO PLACE THIS JUST
  • 00:15:00.120 --> 00:15:02.290
  • RELEASED BOOK IN YOUR HANDS AS A THANK YOU FOR
  • 00:15:03.010 --> 00:15:05.020
  • YOUR GIFT OF SUPPORT.
  • 00:15:05.040 --> 00:15:07.220
  • ALSO, IN APPRECIATION FOR YOUR SPECIAL GIFT OF $125
  • 00:15:07.240 --> 00:15:10.110
  • OR MORE, WE'LL INCLUDE THIS COMPREHENSIVE
  • 00:15:10.130 --> 00:15:13.070
  • HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN BOXED BUNDLE THAT
  • 00:15:13.090 --> 00:15:16.260
  • FEATURES THE COMPANION CD, DVD TEACHING SERIES
  • 00:15:16.280 --> 00:15:19.230
  • ALONG WITH JOYCE'S CLASSIC SERIES BEAUTY FOR
  • 00:15:19.250 --> 00:15:22.290
  • ASHES ON AUDIO AND VIDEO ALONG WITH HER BEAUTY FOR
  • 00:15:23.010 --> 00:15:26.050
  • ASHES STUDY GUIDE.
  • 00:15:26.070 --> 00:15:28.230
  • - YOU KNOW, I BELIEVE THAT GOD WANTS TO DO A
  • 00:15:28.250 --> 00:15:31.170
  • MIRACLE FOR YOU AND HE WANTS TO RESTORE
  • 00:15:31.190 --> 00:15:34.010
  • YOUR SOUL.
  • 00:15:34.030 --> 00:15:35.260
  • - AND AS A BONUS, WE'LL SEND YOU THE WHAT ARE YOU
  • 00:15:35.280 --> 00:15:37.220
  • GOING TO BELIEVE HARD COVER BOOK WHICH HELPS
  • 00:15:37.240 --> 00:15:39.290
  • YOU IDENTIFY AND REPLACE EMBEDDED LIES OF THE
  • 00:15:40.010 --> 00:15:42.140
  • ENEMY IN YOUR MIND WITH LIFE GIVING,
  • 00:15:42.160 --> 00:15:44.200
  • BIBLICAL TRUTH.
  • 00:15:44.220 --> 00:15:46.240
  • TAKE A MOMENT RIGHT NOW TO CALL OR GO SECURELY ON
  • 00:15:46.260 --> 00:15:49.050
  • LINE TO GIVE YOUR GIFT OF SUPPORT AND REQUEST
  • 00:15:49.070 --> 00:15:51.110
  • YOUR RESOURCES.
  • 00:15:51.130 --> 00:15:53.000
  • LET JOYCE MEYER TAKE YOU TO NEW LEVELS OF FREEDOM
  • 00:15:53.020 --> 00:15:55.220
  • AND HEALING FOR YOUR MIND AND EMOTIONS.
  • 00:15:55.240 --> 00:15:57.280
  • AND AS YOU DO, YOU'LL ENABLE TBN TO TAKE THE
  • 00:15:58.000 --> 00:16:00.140
  • MESSAGE OF HOPE AND GRACE TO THE WORLD.
  • 00:16:00.160 --> 00:16:02.260
  • PLEASE CALL, CLICK, OR WRITE US TODAY.
  • 00:16:02.280 --> 00:16:07.010
  • [ MUSIC ]
  • 00:16:07.030 --> 00:16:13.000
  • - HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN.
  • 00:16:13.020 --> 00:16:15.180
  • JOYCE, I HAVE JUST A SIMPLE QUESTION.
  • 00:16:15.200 --> 00:16:17.140
  • ON A SCALE OF 1 TO 10 AT YOUR EARLY YEARS, HOW
  • 00:16:17.160 --> 00:16:22.020
  • VIEWED UP WERE YOU ON A SCALE OF 1 TO 10?
  • 00:16:22.040 --> 00:16:24.140
  • - 12.
  • 00:16:24.160 --> 00:16:26.160
  • - OKAY.
  • 00:16:26.180 --> 00:16:30.070
  • AND THE FACT THAT YOU ARE NOW-- HOW MANY YEARS OF
  • 00:16:30.090 --> 00:16:33.140
  • MINISTRY NOW?
  • 00:16:33.160 --> 00:16:35.080
  • - 42.
  • 00:16:35.100 --> 00:16:37.090
  • - 4 TWO YEARS OF MINISTRY.
  • 00:16:37.110 --> 00:16:39.070
  • HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN.
  • 00:16:39.090 --> 00:16:40.230
  • GUESS WHAT?
  • 00:16:40.250 --> 00:16:42.040
  • WE'VE TIMED THE AIRING OF THIS BROADCAST AND THIS
  • 00:16:42.060 --> 00:16:44.030
  • BOOK IS AVAILABLE RIGHT NOW.
  • 00:16:44.050 --> 00:16:46.170
  • WE ARE DISCUSSING IT NOW.
  • 00:16:46.190 --> 00:16:48.180
  • IT IS AVAILABLE NOW.
  • 00:16:48.200 --> 00:16:51.050
  • HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN BY JOYCE MEYER, AND
  • 00:16:51.070 --> 00:16:54.200
  • LIKE I SAID EARLIER, WHEN SOMEBODY THAT BASICALLY
  • 00:16:54.220 --> 00:16:58.110
  • HAS WRITTEN 121 BOOKS DIGS IN THIS DEEP THIS IS
  • 00:16:58.130 --> 00:17:01.270
  • REALLY YOUR JOURNEY IN A LOT OF WAYS.
  • 00:17:01.290 --> 00:17:04.190
  • SO WHERE DO YOU WANT TO KIND OF DIG IN HERE AND
  • 00:17:04.210 --> 00:17:08.210
  • WHAT NUGGETS CAN WE PULL OUTRIGHT HERE ON THIS
  • 00:17:08.230 --> 00:17:12.220
  • BROADCAST THAT CAN HELP PEOPLE?
  • 00:17:12.240 --> 00:17:14.210
  • - WELL, I'M JUST LOOKING AT ONE OF THE CHAPTERS.
  • 00:17:14.230 --> 00:17:17.080
  • IT SAYS HELP ME, I DON'T UNDERSTAND MYSELF.
  • 00:17:17.100 --> 00:17:19.010
  • [ LAUGHTER ]
  • 00:17:19.030 --> 00:17:22.190
  • - OH MY GOSH.
  • 00:17:22.210 --> 00:17:25.250
  • - EVEN MOST PEOPLE WITH A HEALTHY SOUL DON'T
  • 00:17:25.270 --> 00:17:28.170
  • UNDERSTAND THEMSELVES LET ALONE SOMEBODY THAT'S ALL
  • 00:17:28.190 --> 00:17:31.120
  • MESSED UP BECAUSE YOU DON'T -- I MEAN, I THOUGHT
  • 00:17:31.140 --> 00:17:33.060
  • ALL THE TIME WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?
  • 00:17:33.080 --> 00:17:36.220
  • BECAUSE I WOULD DO THINGS I DIDN'T WANT TO DO, SAY
  • 00:17:36.240 --> 00:17:38.200
  • THINGS I DIDN'T WANT TO SAY, REACT IN WAYS THAT I
  • 00:17:38.220 --> 00:17:41.070
  • DIDN'T WANT TO REACT.
  • 00:17:41.090 --> 00:17:43.240
  • AND SO MUCH OF IT WAS COMING OUT OF MY PAST
  • 00:17:43.260 --> 00:17:47.100
  • PAIN BUT I DIDN'T KNOW SO, SO I'LL GIVE YOU
  • 00:17:47.120 --> 00:17:49.190
  • AN EXAMPLE.
  • 00:17:49.210 --> 00:17:51.180
  • I REALLY UNDERSTAND WHY JESUS USED PARABLES.
  • 00:17:51.200 --> 00:17:53.200
  • I CAN'T HARDLY PREACH WITHOUT GIVING EXAMPLES
  • 00:17:53.220 --> 00:17:55.100
  • AND TELLING STORIES.
  • 00:17:55.120 --> 00:17:57.150
  • - I LOVE IT.
  • 00:17:57.170 --> 00:17:59.150
  • - THE WORD IS VERY -- IT'S SO PRACTICAL.
  • 00:17:59.170 --> 00:18:02.010
  • IT'S NOT OVER OUR HEADS.
  • 00:18:02.030 --> 00:18:04.050
  • JESUS MADE IT APPLICABLE TO EVERYDAY LIFE, SO IN
  • 00:18:04.070 --> 00:18:08.120
  • THE EARLIER YEARS LIKE MINE AND DAVE'S MARRIAGE
  • 00:18:08.140 --> 00:18:14.200
  • LIKE A LOT OF YOUNG COUPLES IT SEEMED TO ME
  • 00:18:14.220 --> 00:18:17.000
  • THAT WE COULDN'T TALK ABOUT ANYTHING IF THERE
  • 00:18:17.020 --> 00:18:18.250
  • WAS ANY KIND OF A CONFLICT.
  • 00:18:18.270 --> 00:18:21.060
  • IF HE DIDN'T AGREE WITH ME, THEN --
  • 00:18:21.080 --> 00:18:23.290
  • - YOU'D BOTH BE WRONG.
  • 00:18:24.010 --> 00:18:26.230
  • - WELL, I DIDN'T REALIZE WHAT I WAS DOING, BUT I
  • 00:18:26.250 --> 00:18:29.020
  • COULDN'T SEPARATE ME FROM MY OPINION.
  • 00:18:29.040 --> 00:18:33.280
  • I DIDN'T KNOW WHO I WAS, SO IF I HAD AN OPINION
  • 00:18:34.000 --> 00:18:37.070
  • AND HE DIDN'T AGREE WITH IT, THEN I WOULD
  • 00:18:37.090 --> 00:18:40.110
  • FEEL REJECTED.
  • 00:18:40.130 --> 00:18:42.100
  • SO THEN I WOULD GO INTO THIS MODE OF TRYING TO
  • 00:18:42.120 --> 00:18:44.280
  • CONVINCE HIM THAT I WAS RIGHT.
  • 00:18:45.000 --> 00:18:48.160
  • SO THEN HE FELT MANIPULATED AND CONTROLLED
  • 00:18:48.180 --> 00:18:52.110
  • AND LIKE THE ONLY WAY THAT HE'D GET ALONG WITH
  • 00:18:52.130 --> 00:18:54.050
  • ME WAS IF HE ALWAYS AGREED WITH ME, WHICH
  • 00:18:54.070 --> 00:18:57.070
  • THEN SO MY DYSFUNCTION TOOK AWAY HIS FREEDOM.
  • 00:18:57.090 --> 00:19:01.100
  • AND WHEN GOD FINALLY SHOWED ME THAT,
  • 00:19:01.120 --> 00:19:03.200
  • I WAS LIKE MY GOSH!
  • 00:19:03.220 --> 00:19:08.210
  • YOU KNOW? IT WAS REJECTION.
  • 00:19:08.230 --> 00:19:11.070
  • IT WAS THAT ROOT OF REJECTION THAT I HAD IN
  • 00:19:11.090 --> 00:19:13.270
  • MY LIFE FROM MY PAST.
  • 00:19:13.290 --> 00:19:15.210
  • AND SO IF I COOKED A MEAL AND IT WASN'T HIS FAVORITE,
  • 00:19:15.230 --> 00:19:19.150
  • I FELT REJECTED.
  • 00:19:19.170 --> 00:19:22.140
  • IF HE DIDN'T AGREE WITH MY OPINION,
  • 00:19:22.160 --> 00:19:24.120
  • I FELT REJECTED.
  • 00:19:24.140 --> 00:19:26.030
  • IF HE DIDN'T LIKE AN OUTFIT I PUT ON, I FELT
  • 00:19:26.050 --> 00:19:28.020
  • REJECTED BECAUSE I DIDN'T KNOW WHO I WAS.
  • 00:19:28.040 --> 00:19:31.260
  • I WAS ALL THESE OTHER THINGS.
  • 00:19:31.280 --> 00:19:34.110
  • I WAS THE WAY I LOOKED, OR I WAS THE WAY I COOKED.
  • 00:19:34.130 --> 00:19:39.140
  • EVERYTHING HAD TO BE COMPLIMENTS, AND I AGREE
  • 00:19:39.160 --> 00:19:43.170
  • WITH YOU, AND YOU'RE RIGHT.
  • 00:19:43.190 --> 00:19:45.000
  • WHEN YOU FEEL SO WRONG, YOU WANT SOMEBODY ELSE TO
  • 00:19:45.020 --> 00:19:50.190
  • CONSTANTLY BE TELLING YOU THAT YOU'RE RIGHT.
  • 00:19:50.210 --> 00:19:54.280
  • SOONER OR LATER, PEOPLE ARE GONNA GET TIRED OF
  • 00:19:55.000 --> 00:19:57.090
  • KEEPING YOU FIXED BECAUSE THAT'S ALL THEY CAN DO
  • 00:19:57.110 --> 00:20:00.020
  • ALL DAY LONG IS MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF.
  • 00:20:00.040 --> 00:20:02.180
  • - CAN I USE YOU AS A REFEREE JUST FOR A SECOND?
  • 00:20:02.200 --> 00:20:05.270
  • AND I WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT, I WANT TO REMIND
  • 00:20:05.290 --> 00:20:08.100
  • YOU THAT THERE'S CAMERAS HERE THAT ARE RECORDING.
  • 00:20:08.120 --> 00:20:10.240
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • 00:20:10.260 --> 00:20:12.030
  • LET ME TELL YOU KIND OF THE OPPOSITE OF WHAT YOU
  • 00:20:12.050 --> 00:20:17.060
  • JUST SAID THAT MIGHT HAPPEN ONCE IN A WHILE IS...
  • 00:20:17.080 --> 00:20:23.100
  • - I LOVE WHEN WE PLAY THIS GAME WITH YOU, DON'T YOU?
  • 00:20:23.120 --> 00:20:25.250
  • - YOU HAVE TO BE NICE.
  • 00:20:25.270 --> 00:20:27.060
  • - BUT REFEREE THIS BECAUSE LAURIE WOULD
  • 00:20:27.080 --> 00:20:30.190
  • NEVER TRY TO CONVINCE ME SHE WAS RIGHT.
  • 00:20:30.210 --> 00:20:33.120
  • SHE WOULD CLAM UP AND PROBABLY FEEL A LEVEL OF
  • 00:20:33.140 --> 00:20:37.100
  • REJECTION THAT I DIDN'T SEE IT THE WAY
  • 00:20:37.120 --> 00:20:39.120
  • SHE DID OR WHATEVER.
  • 00:20:39.140 --> 00:20:41.070
  • BUT SHE WOULD NEVER TRY TO OUT VERBAL SKILL ME.
  • 00:20:41.090 --> 00:20:45.040
  • - FIGHT WITH HIM.
  • 00:20:45.060 --> 00:20:46.200
  • - SHE WOULD JUST CLAM UP AND KIND OF GO.
  • 00:20:46.220 --> 00:20:49.000
  • SO YOU ARE A VERBAL COMMUNICATOR, SO YOU WERE
  • 00:20:49.020 --> 00:20:52.230
  • TRYING-- SHE WOULD BE THE OPPOSITE OF THAT, BUT
  • 00:20:52.250 --> 00:20:54.260
  • IT'S A SIMILAR THING.
  • 00:20:54.280 --> 00:20:56.170
  • IF WE EVER GET IN ANY KIND OF A DISAGREEMENT
  • 00:20:56.190 --> 00:20:59.040
  • OVER FOR GOODNESS SAKES THE COLOR OF A CANDLE,
  • 00:20:59.060 --> 00:21:02.080
  • IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT IT IS, THEN SHE WOULD
  • 00:21:02.100 --> 00:21:04.260
  • PROBABLY JUST CLAM UP. SO THAT WOULD BE--
  • 00:21:04.280 --> 00:21:08.100
  • - I EXPLODE AND SHE IMPLODES.
  • 00:21:08.120 --> 00:21:10.230
  • - MATT: THERE YOU GO.
  • 00:21:10.250 --> 00:21:12.220
  • - BUT BOTH ARE EQUALLY DESTRUCTIVE.
  • 00:21:12.240 --> 00:21:15.180
  • - BUT I'M RIGHT, RIGHT?
  • 00:21:15.200 --> 00:21:17.000
  • - HE'S ALWAYS RIGHT.
  • 00:21:17.020 --> 00:21:18.090
  • THAT'S THE PROBLEM, JOYCE.
  • 00:21:18.110 --> 00:21:20.040
  • - I'M JUST TRYING TO GET YOU TO SAY I'M RIGHT IS ALL.
  • 00:21:20.060 --> 00:21:22.160
  • - ALL MEN ARE ALWAYS RIGHT, IT'S LIKE...
  • 00:21:22.180 --> 00:21:26.140
  • - THERE'S THE INSTAGRAM QUOTE.
  • 00:21:26.160 --> 00:21:27.240
  • THERE IT IS RIGHT THERE.
  • 00:21:27.260 --> 00:21:29.160
  • - AT LEAST THEY THINK THEY ARE.
  • 00:21:29.180 --> 00:21:32.000
  • THEY'VE GOT A LITTLE REVELATION COMING
  • 00:21:32.020 --> 00:21:33.020
  • WHEN THEY GET TO HEAVEN.
  • 00:21:33.040 --> 00:21:34.210
  • - GO AHEAD AND BRING THAT.
  • 00:21:34.230 --> 00:21:36.250
  • - I TOLD DAVE THE OTHER DAY, I SAID WHEN YOU GET
  • 00:21:36.270 --> 00:21:38.160
  • TO HEAVEN, YOU'RE GONNA BE A LITTLE BIT BORED
  • 00:21:38.180 --> 00:21:42.100
  • BECAUSE THE REST OF US ARE GONNA KNOW EVERYTHING
  • 00:21:42.120 --> 00:21:47.180
  • THAT WE'VE NEVER KNOWN.
  • 00:21:47.200 --> 00:21:50.090
  • THE BIBLE SAYS YOU'LL KNOW EVEN AS YOU'RE KNOWN.
  • 00:21:50.110 --> 00:21:52.130
  • BUT I SAID YOU ALREADY KNOW EVERYTHING, SO
  • 00:21:52.150 --> 00:21:54.260
  • THERE'S GONNA BE NOTHING.
  • 00:21:54.280 --> 00:21:57.050
  • - NO SURPRISES FOR YOU.
  • 00:21:57.070 --> 00:21:58.250
  • - NO SURPRISES AT ALL FOR YOU.
  • 00:21:58.270 --> 00:22:01.160
  • - WHAT'S FUNNY?
  • 00:22:01.180 --> 00:22:05.170
  • - YOU AND DAVE ARE SUCH GOOD FRIENDS.
  • 00:22:05.190 --> 00:22:08.170
  • - THE WAY THAT WE RESPOND TO THINGS ARE
  • 00:22:08.190 --> 00:22:13.190
  • PARTIALLY DEPENDENT, IN LARGE PART DEPENDENT
  • 00:22:13.210 --> 00:22:16.170
  • ON OUR TEMPERAMENT.
  • 00:22:16.190 --> 00:22:18.040
  • LIKE I KNOW A WOMAN IN MINISTRY WHO WAS ALSO
  • 00:22:18.060 --> 00:22:23.000
  • ABUSED SEXUALLY BY A FAMILY MEMBER LIKE I WAS,
  • 00:22:23.030 --> 00:22:26.270
  • AND I CAME OUT OF IT LIKE A BULL IN A CHINA
  • 00:22:26.290 --> 00:22:30.290
  • CABINET, AND SHE SHRUNK BACK WITHIN HERSELF AND
  • 00:22:31.010 --> 00:22:35.170
  • WOULD NEVER CONFRONT ANYTHING.
  • 00:22:35.190 --> 00:22:37.270
  • AND THEY'RE BOTH EQUALLY DESTRUCTIVE, AND THEY'RE
  • 00:22:37.290 --> 00:22:41.240
  • BOTH EQUALLY WRONG BECAUSE IF YOU DO WHAT
  • 00:22:41.260 --> 00:22:44.280
  • YOU'VE DONE, YOU END UP LETTING PEOPLE WALK ALL
  • 00:22:45.000 --> 00:22:48.020
  • OVER YOU ALL THE TIME BECAUSE YOU WON'T
  • 00:22:48.040 --> 00:22:51.090
  • SPEAK UP FOR YOURSELF.
  • 00:22:51.110 --> 00:22:52.270
  • YOU WON'T TAKE UP FOR YOURSELF.
  • 00:22:52.290 --> 00:22:54.220
  • AND YOU NEED TO DO THAT.
  • 00:22:54.240 --> 00:22:56.090
  • I WAS ON THE OTHER END OF THE EXTREME WHERE
  • 00:22:56.110 --> 00:22:58.060
  • I CONFRONTED EVERYTHING.
  • 00:22:58.080 --> 00:23:01.170
  • NO RIGHT TIMING, NO RIGHT PLACE, NO DOING IT
  • 00:23:01.190 --> 00:23:05.150
  • QUIETLY OR PRIVATELY.
  • 00:23:05.170 --> 00:23:07.080
  • IF I FELT IT, OUT IT CAME.
  • 00:23:07.100 --> 00:23:10.260
  • - I LOVE TO WATCH THAT.
  • 00:23:10.280 --> 00:23:13.210
  • - AND SO I THINK THAT WE HAVE TO LEARN TO
  • 00:23:13.230 --> 00:23:19.000
  • UNDERSTAND WHERE SOME OF THIS BEHAVIOR IS COMING
  • 00:23:19.020 --> 00:23:21.010
  • FROM, AND SOMETHING THAT IS AMAZING TO ME, IT'S
  • 00:23:21.030 --> 00:23:26.200
  • AMAZING WHAT GOD WILL TELL YOU IF YOU JUST ASK
  • 00:23:26.220 --> 00:23:28.040
  • HIM. WHY DID I DO THAT?
  • 00:23:28.060 --> 00:23:32.030
  • ONE NIGHT I WAS TOSSING AND TURNING, AND I
  • 00:23:32.050 --> 00:23:33.190
  • USUALLY SLEEP PRETTY GOOD, AND I DON'T KNOW
  • 00:23:33.210 --> 00:23:36.080
  • WHY IT TOOK ME TO 5:00 A.M.
  • 00:23:36.100 --> 00:23:37.220
  • BUT FINALLY AT 5:00 A.M.
  • 00:23:37.240 --> 00:23:39.020
  • I SAID GOD, WHAT IS WRONG?
  • 00:23:39.040 --> 00:23:41.180
  • AND IMMEDIATELY HE SHOWED ME THAT I HAD REALLY HURT
  • 00:23:41.200 --> 00:23:45.020
  • SOMEBODY'S FEELINGS THE DAY BEFORE AND NEVER
  • 00:23:45.040 --> 00:23:48.280
  • BOTHERED TO TELL THEM I WAS SORRY, NEVER REPENTED
  • 00:23:49.000 --> 00:23:52.100
  • FOR IT. AND AS SOON AS I DID, I WENT TO SLEEP.
  • 00:23:52.120 --> 00:23:57.040
  • BUT I DIDN'T GET AN ANSWER UNTIL I ASKED.
  • 00:23:57.060 --> 00:23:59.040
  • YOU HAVE NOT BECAUSE YOU ASK NOT.
  • 00:23:59.060 --> 00:24:01.170
  • SO INSTEAD OF ASKING GOD WHAT'S WRONG WITH
  • 00:24:01.190 --> 00:24:03.200
  • EVERYBODY ELSE, WE NEED TO START ASKING HIM, WE
  • 00:24:03.220 --> 00:24:06.270
  • NEED TO START OWNING OUR REACTIONS TO THINGS, NOT
  • 00:24:06.290 --> 00:24:11.080
  • JUST BLAMING BUT OWNING OUR REACTION TO THINGS.
  • 00:24:11.100 --> 00:24:17.010
  • WHEN YOU STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR ALL YOUR
  • 00:24:17.030 --> 00:24:22.210
  • WRONG BEHAVIOR, THINGS START TO CHANGE PRETTY
  • 00:24:22.230 --> 00:24:26.210
  • RAPIDLY, BUT IT'S-- JESUS SAID THE TRUTH WILL MAKE
  • 00:24:26.230 --> 00:24:30.020
  • YOU FREE BUT IT'S NOT THE TRUTH ABOUT SOMEBODY
  • 00:24:30.040 --> 00:24:31.250
  • ELSE THAT MAKES ME FREE.
  • 00:24:31.270 --> 00:24:34.100
  • IT'S THE TRUTH ABOUT ME THAT MAKES ME FREE.
  • 00:24:34.120 --> 00:24:38.000
  • - WHERE ELSE DO YOU WANT TO GO HERE?
  • 00:24:38.020 --> 00:24:39.250
  • WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT TO--
  • 00:24:39.270 --> 00:24:41.030
  • - I LOVE WHAT YOU SAID, YOU SAID TRUE FREEDOM IS
  • 00:24:41.050 --> 00:24:42.170
  • INSIDE OF US NOT AROUND US.
  • 00:24:42.190 --> 00:24:44.150
  • THERE'S SO MANY AMAZING--
  • 00:24:44.170 --> 00:24:47.260
  • - SO MANY GOOD THINGS.
  • 00:24:47.280 --> 00:24:49.040
  • ONE OF THE THINGS THAT WAS EXTREMELY HELPFUL TO
  • 00:24:49.060 --> 00:24:51.120
  • ME AS FAR AS FORGIVING IS GOD TOLD ME HURTING
  • 00:24:51.140 --> 00:24:55.050
  • PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE.
  • 00:24:55.070 --> 00:24:58.050
  • SO MOST OF THE PEOPLE, IF YOU'RE WATCHING AND
  • 00:24:58.070 --> 00:25:01.250
  • YOU'VE BEEN REALLY HURT BY SOMEBODY, THEY HURT
  • 00:25:01.270 --> 00:25:05.260
  • YOU OUT OF THEIR HURT.
  • 00:25:05.280 --> 00:25:07.290
  • AND IF YOU REALIZE THAT, THEN IT DOES MAKE IT A
  • 00:25:08.010 --> 00:25:10.100
  • LITTLE BIT EASIER TO FORGIVE THEM.
  • 00:25:10.120 --> 00:25:14.030
  • MY FATHER HAD NOT BEEN RAISED RIGHT AND THERE
  • 00:25:14.050 --> 00:25:16.180
  • WAS INCEST IN HIS HOME, WHICH I FOUND OUT LATER,
  • 00:25:16.200 --> 00:25:20.110
  • AND HE WASN'T TREATED RIGHT BY HIS DAD, AND HIS
  • 00:25:20.130 --> 00:25:25.070
  • DAD WAS A CHRISTIAN AND YET HE WAS A MEAN
  • 00:25:25.090 --> 00:25:27.180
  • CHRISTIAN AND THAT DOESN'T ALWAYS SET WELL
  • 00:25:27.200 --> 00:25:31.010
  • WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.
  • 00:25:31.030 --> 00:25:33.130
  • AND SO HE ALREADY HAD TWO STRIKES AGAINST HIM WHEN
  • 00:25:33.150 --> 00:25:40.270
  • HE STARTED, AND THAT DOESN'T MAKE WHAT HE DID
  • 00:25:40.290 --> 00:25:42.260
  • OKAY, BUT IT DOES MAKE IT EASIER TO FORGIVE IF YOU
  • 00:25:42.280 --> 00:25:47.180
  • REALIZE THAT PEOPLE ARE HURTING YOU
  • 00:25:47.200 --> 00:25:52.160
  • OUT OF THEIR OWN PAIN.
  • 00:25:52.180 --> 00:25:54.150
  • THEN ANOTHER CHAPTER IN HERE THAT I REALLY ENJOY
  • 00:25:54.170 --> 00:25:57.200
  • PREACHING THIS MESSAGE WAS NO PARKING AT ANY TIME.
  • 00:25:57.220 --> 00:26:00.280
  • ONE DAY I WAS DRIVING DOWN THE STREET AND I SAW
  • 00:26:01.000 --> 00:26:02.230
  • THIS SIGN "NO PARKING AT ANY TIME" AND IT JUST
  • 00:26:02.250 --> 00:26:04.240
  • LIKE, EXPLODED TO ME.
  • 00:26:04.260 --> 00:26:06.280
  • I THOUGHT THAT'S WHAT PEOPLE DO WITH THEIR LIFE.
  • 00:26:07.000 --> 00:26:08.230
  • THEY PARK AT THE POINT OF THEIR PAIN AND THEY
  • 00:26:08.250 --> 00:26:12.050
  • DON'T GO ANYWHERE ELSE.
  • 00:26:12.070 --> 00:26:15.090
  • AND I HAPPENED TO SEE A MOVIE, I DON'T KNOW IF
  • 00:26:15.110 --> 00:26:17.250
  • YOU EVER SAW IT, IT WAS ABOUT, I THINK IT'S
  • 00:26:17.270 --> 00:26:20.270
  • CALLED THE YELLOW VAN OR SOMETHING.
  • 00:26:20.290 --> 00:26:22.190
  • THIS IS ACTUALLY A TRUE STORY.
  • 00:26:22.210 --> 00:26:24.090
  • IT WAS ABOUT A WOMAN WHO WAS HOMELESS AND SHE
  • 00:26:24.110 --> 00:26:29.050
  • LIVED IN THIS YELLOW VAN THAT SHE HAD PAINTED
  • 00:26:29.070 --> 00:26:31.150
  • YELLOW. AND THEY KEPT RUNNING HER OFF THE STREETS.
  • 00:26:31.170 --> 00:26:36.070
  • SHE'D PARK ON THE STREET AND THEY'D LET HER
  • 00:26:36.090 --> 00:26:37.210
  • STAY THERE SO LONG.
  • 00:26:37.230 --> 00:26:39.070
  • SO FINALLY SHE WENT TO THIS PERSON'S HOUSE AND
  • 00:26:39.090 --> 00:26:41.110
  • ASKED IF SHE COULD PARK IN THEIR DRIVEWAY FOR A
  • 00:26:41.130 --> 00:26:45.040
  • CERTAIN PERIOD OF TIME BECAUSE SHE FOUND OUT SHE
  • 00:26:45.060 --> 00:26:47.040
  • COULD GET SOME MONEY FROM THE GOVERNMENT MONTHLY
  • 00:26:47.060 --> 00:26:51.030
  • IF SHE HAD AN ADDRESS. SHE DIDN'T HAVE ONE.
  • 00:26:51.050 --> 00:26:55.000
  • SO HE DIDN'T REALLY WANT TO DO THIS.
  • 00:26:55.020 --> 00:26:56.170
  • THIS HAPPENED OVER IN ENGLAND BUT HE LET HER
  • 00:26:56.190 --> 00:26:59.010
  • PARK THERE. WELL, SHE ENDED UP STAYING THERE FOR
  • 00:26:59.030 --> 00:27:01.240
  • LIKE YEARS AND YEARS AND YEARS.
  • 00:27:01.260 --> 00:27:04.140
  • BUT THE ULTIMATE, IT'S A LONG STORY BUT TO GET TO
  • 00:27:04.160 --> 00:27:08.220
  • THE LONG AND THE SHORT OF IT, SHE WAS A CONCERT
  • 00:27:08.240 --> 00:27:12.180
  • PIANIST. SHE PLAYED BEFORE KINGS AND QUEENS AND
  • 00:27:12.200 --> 00:27:17.260
  • WAS JUST PHENOMENAL.
  • 00:27:17.280 --> 00:27:20.160
  • SHE REALLY REALLY LOVED GOD, SO SHE BECAME A NUN,
  • 00:27:20.180 --> 00:27:24.190
  • AND SHE HAPPENED TO HAVE A MOTHER SUPERIOR THAT
  • 00:27:24.210 --> 00:27:28.030
  • WAS NOT VERY KIND AND WAS REALLY JEALOUS OF HER
  • 00:27:28.050 --> 00:27:34.160
  • PIANO GIFT, SO SHE TOLD HER THAT GOD WANTED HER
  • 00:27:34.180 --> 00:27:39.090
  • TO GIVE IT UP BECAUSE IT WAS PRIDEFUL.
  • 00:27:39.110 --> 00:27:42.260
  • AND SO THAT HURT HER SO BAD AND THE WAY THEY
  • 00:27:42.280 --> 00:27:45.110
  • TREATED HER HURT HER SO BAD THAT SHE ENDED UP
  • 00:27:45.130 --> 00:27:49.040
  • LEAVING AND HAVING SOME KIND OF LIKE
  • 00:27:49.060 --> 00:27:51.120
  • A MENTAL BREAKDOWN.
  • 00:27:51.140 --> 00:27:52.240
  • AND THEN AT ONE POINT IN HER LIFE SHE HAD HIT A
  • 00:27:52.260 --> 00:27:55.160
  • YOUNG MAN IN THE STREET AND KILLED HIM, AND SO
  • 00:27:55.180 --> 00:28:00.040
  • BETWEEN CARRYING THE GUILT OF THAT AND WHAT
  • 00:28:00.060 --> 00:28:02.210
  • HAD HAPPENED TO HER, SHE ENDED UP BEING HOMELESS
  • 00:28:02.230 --> 00:28:05.180
  • AND LIVING IN HER VAN, AND OF COURSE THIS PART
  • 00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:11.260
  • OF THE STORY WAS FICTIONAL BUT WHEN SHE
  • 00:28:11.280 --> 00:28:13.170
  • GOT TO HEAVEN THE FIRST PERSON-- SHE DIED IN HER
  • 00:28:13.190 --> 00:28:16.030
  • VAN BY THE WAY. YOU DIE WHERE YOU PARK.
  • 00:28:16.050 --> 00:28:19.140
  • SO SHE FIRST PERSON SHE SAW WHEN SHE GOT TO
  • 00:28:19.160 --> 00:28:24.020
  • HEAVEN WAS THIS YOUNG MAN THAT SHE HAD BLAMED
  • 00:28:24.040 --> 00:28:28.030
  • HERSELF FOR KILLING ALL THESE YEARS AND HE SAID
  • 00:28:28.050 --> 00:28:29.270
  • YOU DIDN'T KILL ME, I STEPPED OUT IN FRONT OF
  • 00:28:29.290 --> 00:28:31.130
  • YOUR CAR ON PURPOSE.
  • 00:28:31.150 --> 00:28:33.080
  • AND SO ME BEING ABUSED, I CARRIED THE GUILT OF THAT.
  • 00:28:33.100 --> 00:28:37.000
  • I THOUGHT WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME THAT I MY FATHER
  • 00:28:37.020 --> 00:28:38.260
  • WANTS TO DO THAT TO ME?
  • 00:28:38.280 --> 00:28:40.220
  • AND HOW MANY PEOPLE SOMEBODY ELSE IS
  • 00:28:40.240 --> 00:28:44.230
  • DYSFUNCTIONAL AND THEY'RE HURTING YOU, BUT HOW MANY
  • 00:28:44.250 --> 00:28:48.250
  • WOMEN WHOSE HUSBANDS CHEAT ON THEM THINK IT'S,
  • 00:28:48.270 --> 00:28:51.080
  • IT MUST HAVE BEEN MY FAULT.
  • 00:28:51.100 --> 00:28:53.090
  • I WASN'T PRETTY ENOUGH OR THIS ENOUGH.
  • 00:28:53.110 --> 00:28:56.200
  • THE DEVIL ALWAYS WANTS US TO THINK WE'RE NOT ENOUGH
  • 00:28:56.220 --> 00:28:59.260
  • AND THAT'S WHY PEOPLE MISTREAT US.
  • 00:28:59.280 --> 00:29:03.090
  • AND I JUST DON'T WANT TO SEE PEOPLE JUST PARK
  • 00:29:03.110 --> 00:29:06.260
  • THEIR LIFE AT THE POINT OF THEIR PAIN AND STAY
  • 00:29:06.280 --> 00:29:11.120
  • THERE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE LIVING SOME KIND OF
  • 00:29:11.140 --> 00:29:14.120
  • A HALF-LIFE WHEN JESUS DIED FOR YOU TO BE
  • 00:29:14.140 --> 00:29:17.160
  • MADE COMPLETELY WHOLE.
  • 00:29:17.180 --> 00:29:20.150
  • AND THIS WHOLE THING ABOUT THE SOUL BEING
  • 00:29:20.170 --> 00:29:22.170
  • HEALTHY, I MEAN THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO
  • 00:29:22.190 --> 00:29:25.130
  • ME AND THE THINGS THAT HAPPEN TO OTHER PEOPLE,
  • 00:29:25.150 --> 00:29:27.160
  • IT AFFECTS HOW YOU THINK.
  • 00:29:27.180 --> 00:29:30.290
  • THAT'S WHY THE BIBLE SAYS CLEARLY THAT ONE OF THE
  • 00:29:31.010 --> 00:29:33.040
  • FIRST THINGS THAT HAS TO HAPPEN IS YOU HAVE TO
  • 00:29:33.060 --> 00:29:36.160
  • LEARN HOW TO GET YOUR MIND RENEWED THROUGH THE
  • 00:29:36.180 --> 00:29:40.010
  • WORD OF GOD. THE DEVIL TOLD ME ALL
  • 00:29:40.030 --> 00:29:43.140
  • MY LIFE WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU. WELL THE
  • 00:29:43.160 --> 00:29:45.110
  • FIRST THING I STUDY IS RIGHTEOUSNESS IN CHRIST.
  • 00:29:45.130 --> 00:29:48.290
  • SO THE ENEMY WANTS TO REMIND US DAILY OF
  • 00:29:49.010 --> 00:29:51.180
  • EVERYTHING THAT'S WRONG WITH US, BUT THE BIBLE
  • 00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:54.210
  • SAYS HE THAT KNEW NO SIN BECAME SIN THAT WE MIGHT
  • 00:29:54.230 --> 00:29:57.030
  • BE MADE THE RIGHTEOUSNESS OF GOD IN CHRIST.
  • 00:29:57.050 --> 00:30:00.240
  • SO THE MORE YOU THINK YOU'RE WRONG, THE MORE
  • 00:30:00.260 --> 00:30:03.290
  • WRONG THINGS YOU'LL DO.
  • 00:30:04.010 --> 00:30:05.290
  • BUT THE MORE YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU'RE RIGHT WITH
  • 00:30:06.010 --> 00:30:08.140
  • GOD THROUGH JESUS SACRIFICE, THE MORE RIGHT
  • 00:30:08.160 --> 00:30:11.270
  • THINGS YOU'LL DO.
  • 00:30:11.290 --> 00:30:13.220
  • GOD NEVER EXPECTS US TO DO ANYTHING WITHOUT
  • 00:30:13.240 --> 00:30:15.170
  • GIVING US THE EQUIPMENT TO DO IT, SO HE FORGIVES
  • 00:30:15.190 --> 00:30:18.060
  • US FIRST SO WE CAN FORGIVE OTHER PEOPLE.
  • 00:30:18.080 --> 00:30:21.210
  • HE'S MERCIFUL TO US SO WE CAN BE MERCIFUL TO OTHERS.
  • 00:30:21.230 --> 00:30:26.160
  • - HE GIVES US THAT ABILITY.
  • 00:30:26.180 --> 00:30:28.090
  • - SO WE CAN LOVE OTHER PEOPLE.
  • 00:30:28.110 --> 00:30:30.050
  • SO HE NEVER ASKS US TO DO ANYTHING THAT'S NOT GONNA
  • 00:30:30.070 --> 00:30:32.290
  • BE FOR OUR BENEFIT.
  • 00:30:33.010 --> 00:30:34.280
  • SO EVEN WHEN SOMETHING IS HARD, GOD'S TRYING TO SET
  • 00:30:35.000 --> 00:30:38.150
  • YOU FREE FROM SOMETHING THAT'S GONNA BE MUCH
  • 00:30:38.170 --> 00:30:40.060
  • HARDER IF YOU KEEP IT.
  • 00:30:40.080 --> 00:30:42.280
  • SO THAT TO ME WAS A REALLY IMPORTANT CHAPTER
  • 00:30:43.000 --> 00:30:45.150
  • IN THE BOOK BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO, YOU KNOW YOU
  • 00:30:45.170 --> 00:30:49.000
  • HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION THAT YOU'RE GONNA PUT
  • 00:30:49.020 --> 00:30:51.000
  • YOUR LIFE IN DRIVE AGAIN AND STOP JUST STOP
  • 00:30:51.020 --> 00:30:56.000
  • BLAMING EVERYTHING ON WHAT PEOPLE DID TO YOU
  • 00:30:56.020 --> 00:30:58.020
  • OR WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU.
  • 00:30:58.040 --> 00:30:59.220
  • - WE'VE HEARD IT SAID SIMILARLY THAT THE POINT OF YOUR
  • 00:30:59.240 --> 00:31:03.180
  • PAIN WILL EITHER BE YOUR PRISON OR YOUR PLATFORM.
  • 00:31:03.200 --> 00:31:06.130
  • - THAT'S VERY GOOD.
  • 00:31:06.150 --> 00:31:07.250
  • YOU NEED TO BECOME A FRIEND TO YOURSELF AND
  • 00:31:07.270 --> 00:31:10.100
  • DON'T ALWAYS BE WAITING FOR SOMEBODY ELSE TO
  • 00:31:10.120 --> 00:31:11.290
  • DO SOMETHING FOR YOU.
  • 00:31:12.010 --> 00:31:13.250
  • IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYBODY THAT'S DOING SOMETHING
  • 00:31:13.270 --> 00:31:15.220
  • FOR YOU, THEN GO DO SOMETHING FOR YOURSELF.
  • 00:31:15.240 --> 00:31:18.180
  • - ANNOUNCER: WOUNDS OF THE HEART, THEY'RE UNSEEN
  • 00:31:20.020 --> 00:31:22.130
  • BUT EVERY BIT AS REAL AS PHYSICAL WOUNDS.
  • 00:31:22.150 --> 00:31:25.080
  • REJECTION, BETRAYAL, ABANDONMENT AND EVEN
  • 00:31:25.100 --> 00:31:28.100
  • ABUSE CAN LEAVE LASTING SCARS,
  • 00:31:28.120 --> 00:31:31.120
  • IMPACT ALL YOUR MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIPS
  • 00:31:31.140 --> 00:31:34.110
  • AND KEEP YOU FROM EXPERIENCING TRUE HEALING.
  • 00:31:34.130 --> 00:31:37.260
  • IN HER BRAND-NEW BOOK "HEALING THE SOUL OF A
  • 00:31:37.280 --> 00:31:40.250
  • WOMAN, HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS",
  • 00:31:40.270 --> 00:31:44.020
  • JOYCE MEYER IS TRANSPARENT AND REVEALS
  • 00:31:44.040 --> 00:31:46.250
  • HER OWN JOURNEY OF HURT TO HEALING AND HOW YOU
  • 00:31:46.270 --> 00:31:49.190
  • CAN EXPERIENCE THE SAME AMAZING FREEDOM.
  • 00:31:49.210 --> 00:31:52.160
  • - JOYCE MEYER: IT'S VERY PAINFUL AND DIFFICULT TO
  • 00:31:52.180 --> 00:31:55.020
  • GO THROUGH LIFE WITH A WOUNDED SOUL.
  • 00:31:55.040 --> 00:31:57.120
  • I BELIEVE THAT GOD WANTS TO DO A MIRACLE FOR YOU
  • 00:31:57.140 --> 00:32:00.080
  • AND HE WANTS TO RESTORE YOUR SOUL.
  • 00:32:00.100 --> 00:32:03.070
  • - ANNOUNCER: THIS MONTH, TBN WANTS TO PLACE THIS
  • 00:32:03.090 --> 00:32:05.270
  • JUST RELEASED BOOK INTO YOUR HANDS AS OUR
  • 00:32:05.290 --> 00:32:08.080
  • THANK YOU FOR YOUR GIFT OF SUPPORT.
  • 00:32:08.100 --> 00:32:10.140
  • ALSO, IN APPRECIATION FOR YOUR SPECIAL GIFT OF
  • 00:32:10.160 --> 00:32:13.050
  • $125 DOLLARS OR MORE, WE'LL INCLUDE THIS
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  • COMPREHENSIVE "HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN"
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  • BOXED BUNDLE THAT FEATURES THE COMPANION
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  • CD/DVD TEACHING SERIES ALONG WITH JOYCE'S
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  • CLASSIC SERIES "BEAUTY FOR ASHES" ON
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  • AUDIO AND VIDEO.
  • 00:32:26.200 --> 00:32:28.100
  • ALONG WITH HER BEAUTY FOR ASHES STUDY GUIDE AND AS
  • 00:32:28.120 --> 00:32:31.070
  • A BONUS WE'LL SEND YOU THE "WHAT ARE YOU GOING
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  • TO BELIEVE" HARD COVER BOOK.
  • 00:32:34.020 --> 00:32:35.280
  • CALL OR GO SECURELY ONLINE TO CHOOSE YOUR
  • 00:32:36.000 --> 00:32:38.130
  • LEVEL OF SUPPORT AND REQUEST YOUR RESOURCES.
  • 00:32:38.150 --> 00:32:41.080
  • LET JOYCE MEYER TAKE YOU TO NEW LEVELS OF FREEDOM
  • 00:32:41.100 --> 00:32:44.010
  • AND HEALING FOR YOUR MIND AND EMOTIONS.
  • 00:32:44.030 --> 00:32:47.030
  • - MATT CROUCH: WE ARE UNPACKING HEALING THE
  • 00:32:54.040 --> 00:32:56.110
  • SOUL OF A WOMAN WITH JOYCE MEYER.
  • 00:32:56.130 --> 00:32:59.040
  • THIS IS ABOUT HER 121ST OR 22ND BOOK.
  • 00:32:59.060 --> 00:33:03.200
  • SHE IS A NUMBER ONE NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLING
  • 00:33:03.220 --> 00:33:05.280
  • AUTHOR AND WE ARE UNPACKING HER LATEST BOOK. OKAY.
  • 00:33:06.000 --> 00:33:12.000
  • - MORE IMPORTANT-- KEEP GOING.
  • 00:33:12.020 --> 00:33:15.010
  • I KNOW YOU'VE GOT THINGS THAT YOU LOVE TO
  • 00:33:15.030 --> 00:33:16.230
  • PREACH OUT OF THIS BOOK.
  • 00:33:16.250 --> 00:33:18.130
  • - WELL, I MEAN I WANT TO HEAR WHAT
  • 00:33:18.150 --> 00:33:19.220
  • YOU GUYS HAVE TO SAY TOO.
  • 00:33:19.240 --> 00:33:21.250
  • - A PSYCHOLOGIST ONCE THAT YOU INTERVIEWED
  • 00:33:21.270 --> 00:33:24.290
  • ONE TIME SAID A WOMAN NEEDS TO MAKE PEACE WITH
  • 00:33:25.010 --> 00:33:26.280
  • THEIR THIGHS. YOU WANT TO EXPLAIN THAT?
  • 00:33:27.000 --> 00:33:30.210
  • - I'M GONNA LEAVE NOW.
  • 00:33:30.230 --> 00:33:34.080
  • - WELL, BASICALLY WHAT SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT IS
  • 00:33:34.100 --> 00:33:36.090
  • YOU HAVE TO GET AROUND TO THE POINT OF ACCEPTING
  • 00:33:36.110 --> 00:33:39.060
  • YOURSELF AS YOU ARE BEFORE YOU CAN MAKE
  • 00:33:39.080 --> 00:33:44.050
  • ANY PROGRESS TO BE ANY OTHER WAY.
  • 00:33:44.070 --> 00:33:47.130
  • - IS THAT LIKE NUMBER ONE, POINT NUMBER ONE
  • 00:33:47.150 --> 00:33:49.230
  • WHAT WE HAVE TO CHANGE TO GO TO BE HEALED?
  • 00:33:49.250 --> 00:33:53.080
  • PEOPLE WANT THIS.
  • 00:33:53.100 --> 00:33:55.160
  • WE WANT OUR EMOTIONS AND OUR SPIRIT AND OUR
  • 00:33:55.180 --> 00:33:57.210
  • MIND TO BE HEALED.
  • 00:33:57.230 --> 00:34:00.100
  • WHAT'S THE FIRST THING THAT WE NEED TO DO,
  • 00:34:00.120 --> 00:34:02.200
  • PROBABLY BESIDES JUST RENEW YOUR MIND WITH
  • 00:34:02.220 --> 00:34:05.010
  • THE WORD OF GOD?
  • 00:34:05.030 --> 00:34:06.140
  • - WELL, THE FIRST THING IS YOU NEED TO RECEIVE
  • 00:34:06.160 --> 00:34:08.010
  • JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR SAVIOR BECAUSE, YOU KNOW,
  • 00:34:08.030 --> 00:34:13.240
  • YOU CAN'T DO THIS AND DO IT RIGHT IF YOU DON'T
  • 00:34:13.260 --> 00:34:17.020
  • HAVE HIM HELPING YOU AND LIVING ON THE INSIDE OF
  • 00:34:17.040 --> 00:34:20.020
  • YOU TO BEGIN TO REVEAL TO YOU AND SHOW THINGS TO
  • 00:34:20.040 --> 00:34:23.260
  • YOU. HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH JESUS ISN'T JUST
  • 00:34:23.280 --> 00:34:27.160
  • ABOUT OH, GOOD, I DON'T HAVE TO GO TO HELL
  • 00:34:27.180 --> 00:34:29.270
  • WHEN I DIE, I GET TO GO TO HEAVEN.
  • 00:34:29.290 --> 00:34:32.150
  • HE DIED FOR YOU TO HAVE A GREAT LIFE.
  • 00:34:32.170 --> 00:34:34.260
  • AND I WOULD SAY THAT THE NEXT THING THAT HAS TO
  • 00:34:34.280 --> 00:34:38.080
  • HAPPEN LAURIE IS YOU HAVE TO RECOGNIZE THAT YOU
  • 00:34:38.100 --> 00:34:40.070
  • HAVE A PROBLEM, THAT IT'S NOT EVERYBODY ELSE
  • 00:34:40.090 --> 00:34:42.230
  • THAT HAS A PROBLEM.
  • 00:34:42.250 --> 00:34:44.080
  • SEE, I THOUGHT EVERYBODY ELSE HAD A PROBLEM.
  • 00:34:44.100 --> 00:34:46.200
  • I THOUGHT WHAT'S WRONG WITH DAVE, WHAT'S WRONG
  • 00:34:46.220 --> 00:34:48.290
  • WITH MY KIDS, WHAT'S WRONG WITH MY NEIGHBOR,
  • 00:34:49.010 --> 00:34:51.150
  • WHAT'S WRONG WITH MY PARENTS.
  • 00:34:51.170 --> 00:34:53.090
  • IT WAS ALWAYS SOMEBODY ELSE. IT WASN'T ME.
  • 00:34:53.110 --> 00:34:57.190
  • AND I REMEMBER AN EXPERIENCE I HAD WHEN
  • 00:34:57.210 --> 00:34:59.240
  • I WAS PRAYING ONE DAY FOR DAVE TO CHANGE,
  • 00:34:59.260 --> 00:35:02.010
  • AND I MEAN I WAS GOING AFTER IT.
  • 00:35:02.030 --> 00:35:04.200
  • I PRAYED LOUD AND LONG AND OH, GOD YOU'VE
  • 00:35:04.220 --> 00:35:07.160
  • GOT TO CHANGE DAVE!
  • 00:35:07.180 --> 00:35:09.090
  • I'D LAY DOWN ON THE FLOOR ON MY FACE AND GET REAL
  • 00:35:09.110 --> 00:35:11.280
  • DRAMATIC, "GOD, YOU'VE GOT TO CHANGE DAVE!
  • 00:35:12.000 --> 00:35:14.130
  • I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE!"
  • 00:35:14.150 --> 00:35:16.140
  • AND I HEARD THE HOLY SPIRIT SPEAK TO ME AND
  • 00:35:16.160 --> 00:35:18.080
  • SAY DAVE'S NOT THE PROBLEM.
  • 00:35:18.100 --> 00:35:21.070
  • AND I HONESTLY THOUGHT WELL WHO IS? I MEAN.
  • 00:35:21.090 --> 00:35:26.060
  • - SHOW ME LORD.
  • 00:35:26.080 --> 00:35:27.170
  • - I COULDN'T EVEN CONCEIVE THAT IT WAS ME.
  • 00:35:27.190 --> 00:35:30.040
  • I HAD LIVED IN DENIAL FOR SO LONG THAT I THOUGHT
  • 00:35:30.060 --> 00:35:35.100
  • WELL IF IT'S NOT DAVE, WHO IS IT?
  • 00:35:35.120 --> 00:35:37.230
  • AND GOD SPENT THE NEXT THREE DAYS REVEALING TO
  • 00:35:37.250 --> 00:35:43.010
  • ME WHAT IT WAS LIKE TO LIVE IN A HOUSE WITH ME.
  • 00:35:43.030 --> 00:35:46.230
  • AND I CRIED FOR THREE DAYS BECAUSE
  • 00:35:46.250 --> 00:35:49.000
  • I MEAN IT'S HARD.
  • 00:35:49.020 --> 00:35:52.030
  • IT'S HARD WHEN YOU START HAVING TO FACE THAT I'M
  • 00:35:52.050 --> 00:35:55.160
  • SELFISH, AND I'M JEALOUS, AND I'M SELF-CENTERED,
  • 00:35:55.180 --> 00:35:58.150
  • AND I'M MAD IF I DON'T GET MY WAY ALL THE TIME,
  • 00:35:58.170 --> 00:36:01.040
  • BUT EACH ONE OF THOSE TRUTHS THAT YOU FACE THEN
  • 00:36:01.060 --> 00:36:06.050
  • GIVES YOU A LITTLE BIT MORE FREEDOM.
  • 00:36:06.070 --> 00:36:08.070
  • YOU CANNOT BE HEALED FROM A PROBLEM UNTIL YOU
  • 00:36:08.090 --> 00:36:11.060
  • FIRST OWN THE PROBLEM.
  • 00:36:11.080 --> 00:36:13.090
  • SO HOW LONG IS THAT GONNA TAKE PEOPLE? I DON'T KNOW.
  • 00:36:13.110 --> 00:36:17.170
  • - THE FIRST THING IS DON'T DO IT ALONE, DO IT WITH
  • 00:36:17.190 --> 00:36:19.180
  • JESUS. SECOND THING IS ADMIT THAT YOU HAVE A PROBLEM.
  • 00:36:19.200 --> 00:36:23.170
  • WHAT'S THE THIRD THING?
  • 00:36:23.190 --> 00:36:25.130
  • I WANT TO GET THIS OUT BECAUSE.
  • 00:36:25.150 --> 00:36:27.010
  • - DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM?
  • 00:36:27.030 --> 00:36:29.090
  • - THEN THERE'S NUMBER THREE.
  • 00:36:29.110 --> 00:36:31.020
  • WHAT'S THE NEXT PROGRESSION?
  • 00:36:31.040 --> 00:36:34.100
  • - WELL, THERE'S ONE CHAPTER IN HERE ABOUT
  • 00:36:34.120 --> 00:36:36.090
  • FINDING YOUR PATH, AND THE THING IS THE HOLY
  • 00:36:36.110 --> 00:36:41.180
  • SPIRIT WILL TAKE OVER YOUR HEALING IF YOU
  • 00:36:41.200 --> 00:36:44.230
  • ASK HIM, I NEED YOU TO HEAL ME.
  • 00:36:44.250 --> 00:36:48.230
  • THE GREAT THING ABOUT PUTTING THE HOLY SPIRIT
  • 00:36:48.250 --> 00:36:50.260
  • ON YOUR CASE IS HE ALREADY KNOWS MORE ABOUT
  • 00:36:50.280 --> 00:36:53.130
  • YOU THAN YOU'LL EVER FIND OUT, AND HE KNOWS EXACTLY
  • 00:36:53.150 --> 00:36:56.290
  • WHAT IT TAKES FOR EACH PERSON AND EXACTLY WHEN
  • 00:36:57.010 --> 00:37:00.290
  • THE RIGHT TIME IS.
  • 00:37:01.010 --> 00:37:04.270
  • LIKE I MIGHT CONFRONT SOMEBODY ABOUT SOMETHING
  • 00:37:04.290 --> 00:37:09.270
  • TOO SOON. I'LL GIVE AN EXAMPLE.
  • 00:37:09.290 --> 00:37:11.140
  • I WAS COUNSELING A WOMAN ONE TIME AND SHE HAD JUST
  • 00:37:11.160 --> 00:37:14.260
  • RECEIVED JESUS, BUT SHE WAS LIVING WITH HER
  • 00:37:14.280 --> 00:37:18.050
  • BOYFRIEND AND HAD BEEN FOR A LONG TIME.
  • 00:37:18.070 --> 00:37:20.230
  • WELL, SHE WAS IN THE OFFICE FOR COUNSELING AND
  • 00:37:20.250 --> 00:37:22.280
  • I WAS ALREADY PLANNING WHAT I WAS GONNA SAY
  • 00:37:23.000 --> 00:37:24.250
  • TO HER WHILE SHE WAS TALKING, AND I THOUGHT
  • 00:37:24.270 --> 00:37:26.090
  • I'M GONNA TELL HER
  • 00:37:26.110 --> 00:37:28.040
  • SHE'S GOT TO PUT AN END TO THIS RELATIONSHIP.
  • 00:37:28.060 --> 00:37:30.080
  • SHE CAN'T BE LIVING IN THAT KIND OF SIN AND
  • 00:37:30.100 --> 00:37:32.130
  • EXPECT GOD TO HELP HER.
  • 00:37:32.150 --> 00:37:33.230
  • THE HOLY SPIRIT CLEARLY SAID IT ME, YOU'RE NOT
  • 00:37:33.250 --> 00:37:35.270
  • GOING TO TELL HER THAT.
  • 00:37:35.290 --> 00:37:37.170
  • SHE'S NOT READY FOR THAT.
  • 00:37:37.190 --> 00:37:39.140
  • WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, I'LL TELL HER THAT.
  • 00:37:39.160 --> 00:37:42.080
  • AND I THINK EVEN IN DEALING WITH PEOPLE,
  • 00:37:42.100 --> 00:37:44.140
  • SOMEBODY GETS SAVED LAST NIGHT, AND WE WANT TO SIT
  • 00:37:44.160 --> 00:37:47.200
  • THEM DOWN TODAY AND TELL THEM ALL THE THINGS NOW
  • 00:37:47.220 --> 00:37:50.230
  • THAT THEY HAVE TO CHANGE, BUT MAYBE THEY NEED TO BE
  • 00:37:50.250 --> 00:37:55.080
  • LOVED ON BY GOD FOR SIX MONTHS BEFORE THEY CAN DO
  • 00:37:55.100 --> 00:37:58.150
  • ANY OF THAT.
  • 00:37:58.170 --> 00:38:01.150
  • SO THE HOLY SPIRIT KNOWS EXACTLY WHEN AND EXACTLY HOW.
  • 00:38:01.170 --> 00:38:04.060
  • SO I WAS MARRIED TO DAVE FOR SEVERAL YEARS,
  • 00:38:04.080 --> 00:38:08.250
  • PROBABLY FIVE OR SIX YEARS, AND WE WENT TO A
  • 00:38:08.270 --> 00:38:12.100
  • CHURCH SERVICE WHERE THERE WAS A WOMAN GIVING
  • 00:38:12.120 --> 00:38:14.260
  • HER TESTIMONY THAT NIGHT THAT HAD BEEN SEXUALLY
  • 00:38:14.280 --> 00:38:18.130
  • ABUSED BY HER FATHER, LIKE I HAD.
  • 00:38:18.150 --> 00:38:20.170
  • AND SHE HAD WRITTEN A BOOK, AND YOU KNOW, I
  • 00:38:20.190 --> 00:38:26.040
  • WASN'T GOING TO BUY THE BOOK.
  • 00:38:26.060 --> 00:38:27.280
  • I MEAN, THAT WASN'T MY PROBLEM BECAUSE I THOUGHT
  • 00:38:28.000 --> 00:38:31.110
  • WHEN I GOT AWAY FROM MY FATHER THAT I GOT AWAY
  • 00:38:31.130 --> 00:38:34.180
  • FROM MY PROBLEM.
  • 00:38:34.200 --> 00:38:36.200
  • BUT SEE, I DIDN'T REALIZE I TOOK IT WITH ME IN MY
  • 00:38:36.220 --> 00:38:38.270
  • SOUL, AND THAT'S WHAT SO MANY PEOPLE THINK.
  • 00:38:38.290 --> 00:38:41.040
  • THEY THINK YOU KNOW, I'M OUT OF HERE.
  • 00:38:41.060 --> 00:38:45.220
  • I MEAN, I HAD MY PLAN.
  • 00:38:45.240 --> 00:38:47.230
  • I'M OUT OF HERE.
  • 00:38:47.250 --> 00:38:49.150
  • NOBODY'S EVER GOING TO TELL ME WHAT TO DO AGAIN.
  • 00:38:49.170 --> 00:38:51.230
  • I'LL NEVER TRUST ANYBODY AGAIN.
  • 00:38:51.250 --> 00:38:54.080
  • NOBODY EVER GOING TO HURT ME AGAIN.
  • 00:38:54.100 --> 00:38:55.290
  • AND SO I HAD ALL OF THESE INNER VOWS, ALL OF THESE
  • 00:38:56.010 --> 00:38:58.060
  • PROMISES, THAT I HAD MADE TO MYSELF TO MAKE CARE OF
  • 00:38:58.080 --> 00:39:00.270
  • MYSELF, AND I WOULDN'T REALLY LET ANYBODY EVEN IN.
  • 00:39:00.290 --> 00:39:03.070
  • I WOULDN'T LET ANYBODY GET CLOSE ENOUGH TO EVEN
  • 00:39:03.090 --> 00:39:05.150
  • TAKE A CHANCE ON HURTING ME.
  • 00:39:05.170 --> 00:39:09.010
  • AND SO I DIDN'T REALLY REALIZE HOW
  • 00:39:09.030 --> 00:39:14.200
  • MANY PROBLEMS I HAD.
  • 00:39:14.220 --> 00:39:16.160
  • WELL, DAVE BOUGHT ME THE BOOK, AND HE GAVE IT TO
  • 00:39:16.180 --> 00:39:19.260
  • ME, AND I MEAN, I REMEMBER I WAS SITTING,
  • 00:39:19.280 --> 00:39:25.070
  • AND I OPENED UP THE BOOK, AND CHAPTER ONE, PAGE
  • 00:39:25.090 --> 00:39:28.040
  • ONE, THIS GIRL IS DESCRIBING THE ABUSE IN
  • 00:39:28.060 --> 00:39:31.180
  • DETAIL AND SOME OF THE THINGS HER FATHER
  • 00:39:31.200 --> 00:39:34.010
  • DID TO HER.
  • 00:39:34.030 --> 00:39:35.230
  • I MEAN, THE PAIN THAT CAME ROARING UP
  • 00:39:35.250 --> 00:39:37.240
  • OUT OF MY SOUL.
  • 00:39:37.260 --> 00:39:39.250
  • I TOOK THAT BOOK, AND I THREW IT ACROSS THE ROOM,
  • 00:39:39.270 --> 00:39:42.080
  • AND I SAID OUT LOUD, HOME BY MYSELF,
  • 00:39:42.100 --> 00:39:44.120
  • I WILL NOT READ THIS.
  • 00:39:44.140 --> 00:39:46.050
  • AND THE HOLY SPIRIT SO SWEETLY SAID, IT'S TIME.
  • 00:39:46.070 --> 00:39:49.240
  • - WOW.
  • 00:39:49.260 --> 00:39:51.240
  • - SO HE KNOWS THE RIGHT TIME AND THE RIGHT WAY,
  • 00:39:51.260 --> 00:39:56.060
  • AND SO WHEN YOU DECIDE YOU DO WANT TO GET WELL,
  • 00:39:56.080 --> 00:40:00.190
  • YOU NEED TO, FIRST, ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO BEGIN
  • 00:40:00.210 --> 00:40:03.010
  • TO GUIDE YOU DOWN THE PATH THAT HE HAS FOR YOU.
  • 00:40:03.030 --> 00:40:07.040
  • LIKE I SAID, MAYBE FOR SOME PEOPLE, THAT'S GOING
  • 00:40:07.060 --> 00:40:10.030
  • AND TALKING TO YOUR PASTOR.
  • 00:40:10.050 --> 00:40:11.140
  • MAYBE FOR SOME PEOPLE, THAT'S JOINING A GROUP AT
  • 00:40:11.160 --> 00:40:16.060
  • YOUR CHURCH THAT DEALS WITH THESE KINDS OF ISSUES.
  • 00:40:16.080 --> 00:40:18.190
  • MAYBE IT'S GOING FOR SOME PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING.
  • 00:40:18.210 --> 00:40:22.050
  • FIRST OF ALL, I DIDN'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR
  • 00:40:22.070 --> 00:40:24.210
  • PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING, BUT I RECEIVED MY HEALING
  • 00:40:24.230 --> 00:40:28.190
  • FROM THE HOLY SPIRIT.
  • 00:40:28.210 --> 00:40:30.270
  • THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT I'M AGAINST PSYCHOLOGY.
  • 00:40:30.290 --> 00:40:33.070
  • I THINK IT CAN BE VERY GOOD, BUT THAT'S
  • 00:40:33.090 --> 00:40:35.110
  • NOT THE ONLY WAY.
  • 00:40:35.130 --> 00:40:37.290
  • YOU DON'T HAVE TO ALWAYS HAVE THAT TO GET IT
  • 00:40:38.010 --> 00:40:40.040
  • BECAUSE WHAT IS ONE OF THE FUNCTIONS
  • 00:40:40.060 --> 00:40:42.060
  • OF THE HOLY SPIRIT?
  • 00:40:42.080 --> 00:40:44.060
  • HE IS THE COUNSELOR.
  • 00:40:44.080 --> 00:40:48.100
  • SO HE CAN SHOW US WHAT INFORM DO, AND I CAN
  • 00:40:48.120 --> 00:40:50.120
  • LITERALLY SAY THAT FOR ME, WHEN THE HOLY SPIRIT
  • 00:40:50.140 --> 00:40:52.150
  • TOOK OVER MY CASE, HE JUST BEGAN TO SHOW ME
  • 00:40:52.170 --> 00:40:56.190
  • STEP-BY-STEP -- AND THE MIND WAS A BIG THING FOR ME.
  • 00:40:56.210 --> 00:41:02.170
  • THUS, I WROTE "BATTLEFIELD OF THE
  • 00:41:02.190 --> 00:41:04.170
  • MIND", WHICH IS STILL PROBABLY OUR NUMBER ONE BOOK.
  • 00:41:04.190 --> 00:41:06.200
  • AND MY THINKING WAS SO MESSED UP.
  • 00:41:06.220 --> 00:41:10.190
  • I MEAN, IT WAS JUST -- I LET THE DEVIL LIE TO ME
  • 00:41:10.210 --> 00:41:15.000
  • FOR YEARS AND DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HE WAS DOING IT.
  • 00:41:15.020 --> 00:41:17.070
  • SO I LEARNED THAT I HAD TO COMPARE MY THINKING TO
  • 00:41:17.090 --> 00:41:20.270
  • WHAT GOD'S WORD SAID.
  • 00:41:20.290 --> 00:41:23.110
  • SO WHEN I HEARD NOBODY LOVES YOU, AND NOBODY
  • 00:41:23.130 --> 00:41:25.140
  • EVER WILL, I HAD TO SAY, NO, THAT'S NOT TRUE
  • 00:41:25.160 --> 00:41:29.210
  • BECAUSE GOD LOVES ME, AND HE ALWAYS WILL.
  • 00:41:29.230 --> 00:41:32.030
  • AND SO I CAN'T GIVE, I CAN'T SAY JUST LIKE STEP
  • 00:41:32.050 --> 00:41:37.240
  • ONE THROUGH TWENTY FOR EVERYBODY BECAUSE GOD'S
  • 00:41:37.260 --> 00:41:41.090
  • GOING TO DO IT IN A DIFFERENT WAY.
  • 00:41:41.110 --> 00:41:43.230
  • BUT IN READING A BOOK LIKE THIS, I THINK THIS
  • 00:41:43.250 --> 00:41:46.060
  • IS LIKE A MANUAL FOR THE HEALING OF THE SOUL.
  • 00:41:46.080 --> 00:41:53.160
  • ONE CHAPTER IN HERE IS THE WOUNDS OF SIN.
  • 00:41:53.180 --> 00:41:55.230
  • SEE, SOME PEOPLE ARE WATCHING TODAY, AND
  • 00:41:55.250 --> 00:41:58.070
  • YOU'RE NOT HURTING.
  • 00:41:58.090 --> 00:41:59.270
  • YOU DON'T HAVE A WOUNDED SOUL BECAUSE SOMEBODY DID
  • 00:41:59.290 --> 00:42:01.220
  • SOMETHING TO YOU.
  • 00:42:01.240 --> 00:42:03.200
  • YOU HAVE A WOUNDED SOUL BECAUSE OF SOMETHING YOU DID.
  • 00:42:03.220 --> 00:42:07.140
  • AND SO THAT PERSON, THEN, NEEDS TO REALIZE THAT
  • 00:42:07.160 --> 00:42:13.280
  • THERE'S NO SIN THEY'VE COMMITTED THAT CANNOT BE
  • 00:42:14.000 --> 00:42:15.180
  • FORGIVEN.
  • 00:42:15.200 --> 00:42:18.060
  • THERE'S NOTHING IN THEIR PAST THAT GOD CANNOT HEAL
  • 00:42:18.080 --> 00:42:20.140
  • AND REDEEM... AND REDEEM.
  • 00:42:20.160 --> 00:42:26.010
  • THAT'S VERY IMPORTANT BECAUSE GOD WILL TAKE THE
  • 00:42:26.030 --> 00:42:30.000
  • MOST AWFUL THING WE DID, AND IF WE LET HIM
  • 00:42:30.020 --> 00:42:32.280
  • ACTUALLY TURN IT AROUND AND WORK IT OUT FOR OUR GOOD.
  • 00:42:33.000 --> 00:42:38.040
  • SO ALL THE THINGS THAT HAPPENED TO ME IN MY
  • 00:42:38.060 --> 00:42:40.230
  • CHILDHOOD -- I KNOW THIS SOUNDS DUMB -- BUT I
  • 00:42:40.250 --> 00:42:45.090
  • CAN'T EVEN SAY NOW THAT I'M SORRY THAT THEY HAPPENED.
  • 00:42:45.110 --> 00:42:47.020
  • - WOW.
  • 00:42:47.040 --> 00:42:49.010
  • - I USED TO SAY WELL, IF ONLY THAT
  • 00:42:49.030 --> 00:42:50.190
  • WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED.
  • 00:42:50.210 --> 00:42:52.120
  • IF IT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED, I WOULDN'T BE
  • 00:42:52.140 --> 00:42:54.050
  • THE PERSON THAT I AM TODAY, AND I WOULDN'T
  • 00:42:54.070 --> 00:42:56.060
  • KNOW SOME OF THE THINGS THAT I KNOW.
  • 00:42:56.080 --> 00:43:00.150
  • I WENT THROUGH A VERY DIFFICULT SITUATION AT A
  • 00:43:00.170 --> 00:43:02.230
  • CHURCH THAT I WORKED AT ONE TIME.
  • 00:43:02.250 --> 00:43:06.140
  • SO MANY PAINFUL EXPERIENCES, BUT I
  • 00:43:06.160 --> 00:43:10.100
  • LEARNED MORE OUT OF THAT ABOUT LEADERSHIP THAN I
  • 00:43:10.120 --> 00:43:18.000
  • COULD EVEN BEGIN TO TELL YOU BECAUSE I DIDN'T
  • 00:43:18.020 --> 00:43:20.190
  • LEARN WHAT TO DO, BUT I SURE LEARNED WHAT NOT TO DO.
  • 00:43:20.210 --> 00:43:22.200
  • - RIGHT, YES.
  • 00:43:22.220 --> 00:43:24.240
  • - YOU SAID I THOUGHT THAT WHEN I GOT AWAY FROM
  • 00:43:24.260 --> 00:43:28.150
  • MY PARENTS, AND SPECIFICALLY YOUR FATHER,
  • 00:43:28.170 --> 00:43:32.130
  • THAT I DIDN'T NOW HAVE ANY PROBLEM.
  • 00:43:32.150 --> 00:43:35.110
  • - RIGHT.
  • 00:43:35.130 --> 00:43:37.050
  • - BUT YOU HAD CARRIED IT IN YOUR SOUL.
  • 00:43:37.070 --> 00:43:39.150
  • - RIGHT.
  • 00:43:39.170 --> 00:43:41.090
  • - YOU DIDN'T EVEN REALIZE THAT, SO THIS
  • 00:43:41.110 --> 00:43:44.100
  • BOOK AND THE HEALING OF YOUR SOUL IS SUPER
  • 00:43:44.120 --> 00:43:47.000
  • IMPORTANT BECAUSE MOST -- LET ME JUST SAY IF YOU
  • 00:43:47.020 --> 00:43:49.250
  • HAD WRITTEN "HEALING THE SOUL OF A MAN", YOU KNOW
  • 00:43:49.270 --> 00:43:53.130
  • WHAT WOULD NEED TO BE THE FIRST THING?
  • 00:43:53.150 --> 00:43:55.180
  • IS LOGISTICALLY IF YOU'RE AWAY FROM THE PROBLEM,
  • 00:43:55.200 --> 00:43:58.140
  • IT'S OVER. BECAUSE YOU KNOW, WE FIX IT, RIGHT?
  • 00:43:58.160 --> 00:44:03.180
  • YOU MOVE ACROSS COUNTRY, IF IT WAS
  • 00:44:03.200 --> 00:44:05.160
  • I BAD RELATIONSHIP.
  • 00:44:05.180 --> 00:44:07.110
  • SEE, IN MY MIND, THAT WOULD HAVE FIXED IT
  • 00:44:07.130 --> 00:44:11.010
  • TOTALLY, TOO, ALSO.
  • 00:44:11.030 --> 00:44:13.150
  • MAYBE WE THINK SIMILARLY, BUT ULTIMATELY, THAT'S
  • 00:44:13.170 --> 00:44:16.050
  • WHY THIS BOOK EXISTS BECAUSE YOU DRUG
  • 00:44:16.070 --> 00:44:20.110
  • EVERYTHING IN YOUR SOUL AND DIDN'T REALIZE IT.
  • 00:44:20.130 --> 00:44:22.060
  • - RIGHT.
  • 00:44:22.080 --> 00:44:24.010
  • - GEOGRAPHICALLY, YOU DON'T GET AWAY FROM THE
  • 00:44:24.030 --> 00:44:26.000
  • THING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT HAS TO FIX IT.
  • 00:44:26.020 --> 00:44:27.270
  • - YOU TAKE IT WITH YOU.
  • 00:44:27.290 --> 00:44:29.210
  • - YOU CARRY IT WITH YOU IN YOUR SOUL.
  • 00:44:29.230 --> 00:44:31.120
  • - BY THE WAY, I'VE TOLD MEN, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO
  • 00:44:31.140 --> 00:44:32.260
  • IS PUT A PIECE OF TAPE OVER THE W-O...
  • 00:44:32.280 --> 00:44:34.280
  • [LAUGHTER]
  • 00:44:35.000 --> 00:44:36.160
  • - IT WORKS.
  • 00:44:36.180 --> 00:44:38.080
  • - AND I ADMIT IT'S A LITTLE BIT OF A GIRLY
  • 00:44:38.100 --> 00:44:39.280
  • COVER FOR A GUY, BUT IF YOU CAN HANDLE A BOOK
  • 00:44:40.000 --> 00:44:41.140
  • WITH A ROSE ON IT, I MEAN, THE SAME
  • 00:44:41.160 --> 00:44:43.050
  • THING WORKS FOR MEN.
  • 00:44:43.070 --> 00:44:44.280
  • - ABSOLUTELY.
  • 00:44:45.000 --> 00:44:46.160
  • - THERE ARE MORE WOMEN THAT ARE WOUNDED IN THEIR
  • 00:44:46.180 --> 00:44:49.060
  • SOUL THAN MEN BECAUSE --
  • 00:44:49.080 --> 00:44:51.010
  • - LIKE THAT?
  • 00:44:51.030 --> 00:44:52.200
  • - YEAH, THAT'S RIGHT. SEE, HEALING THE SOUL OF A MAN.
  • 00:44:52.220 --> 00:44:54.050
  • - THERE YOU GO.
  • 00:44:54.070 --> 00:44:56.040
  • - AND IF YOU'RE REAL SECURE, YOU CAN HAVE A
  • 00:44:56.060 --> 00:44:57.220
  • BOOK WITH A PINK ROSE ON IT, AND IT
  • 00:44:57.240 --> 00:44:59.040
  • WOULDN'T BOTHER YOU.
  • 00:44:59.060 --> 00:45:00.200
  • - OR YOU COULD TAKE IT OFF AND HAVE A PURPLE BOOK.
  • 00:45:00.220 --> 00:45:02.060
  • - THAT'S TRUE. - GOT IT.
  • 00:45:02.080 --> 00:45:03.250
  • - I LOVE THE CHAPTER ABOUT BEING YOUR OWN BEST ALLY.
  • 00:45:03.270 --> 00:45:07.200
  • - THAT'S ACTUALLY WHAT I WAS GOING TO TALK ABOUT.
  • 00:45:07.220 --> 00:45:09.150
  • - I LOVE THAT.
  • 00:45:09.170 --> 00:45:11.150
  • - YOU GOTTA BE YOUR OWN FRIEND.
  • 00:45:11.170 --> 00:45:13.240
  • BE A FRIEND TO YOURSELF, AND DO
  • 00:45:13.260 --> 00:45:15.220
  • THINGS FOR YOURSELF.
  • 00:45:15.240 --> 00:45:18.210
  • I LOVE THAT DAVID SAID HE ENCOURAGED
  • 00:45:18.230 --> 00:45:20.170
  • HIMSELF IN THE LORD.
  • 00:45:20.190 --> 00:45:22.160
  • YOU KNOW, WE'RE ALWAYS WAITING FOR SOMEBODY ELSE
  • 00:45:22.180 --> 00:45:24.180
  • TO TELL US WE'RE OKAY.
  • 00:45:24.200 --> 00:45:26.120
  • WELL, YOU CAN GET THAT FROM GOD.
  • 00:45:26.140 --> 00:45:28.160
  • IF YOU WILL LEARN TO BELIEVE, IF YOU'LL JUST
  • 00:45:28.180 --> 00:45:31.230
  • LEARN TO BELIEVE WHAT GOD SAYS ABOUT YOU, LIKE I
  • 00:45:31.250 --> 00:45:34.050
  • LIKE MYSELF, AND I KNOW THAT UNDER NORMAL
  • 00:45:34.070 --> 00:45:39.000
  • CIRCUMSTANCES, THAT WOULD SOUND REALLY HAUGHTY AND
  • 00:45:39.020 --> 00:45:41.210
  • LIKE I WAS JUST FULL OF MYSELF, BUT JESUS DIED
  • 00:45:41.230 --> 00:45:45.110
  • FOR US, AND REALLY, THINK IT'S ALMOST LIKE A SLAP
  • 00:45:45.130 --> 00:45:49.200
  • IN HIS FACE TO HATE YOURSELF OR
  • 00:45:49.220 --> 00:45:53.240
  • BE AGAINST YOURSELF.
  • 00:45:53.260 --> 00:45:55.170
  • THE BIBLE SAYS YOU DON'T BELONG TO YOURSELF OF THE
  • 00:45:55.190 --> 00:45:58.070
  • YOU WERE BOUGHT WITH A PRICE, AND THE PRICE THAT
  • 00:45:58.090 --> 00:46:01.030
  • WE WERE PURCHASED WITH WAS THE BLOOD OF JESUS
  • 00:46:01.050 --> 00:46:03.210
  • AND ALL THE PAIN AND SUFFERING THAT HE WENT THROUGH.
  • 00:46:03.230 --> 00:46:05.200
  • AND I LIKE TO SPEND TIME ALONE.
  • 00:46:05.220 --> 00:46:08.230
  • I LIKE TO SPEND TIME WITH MYSELF, AND A LOT OF
  • 00:46:08.250 --> 00:46:12.130
  • PEOPLE, THEY'VE GOT TO HAVE NOISE GOING ON
  • 00:46:12.150 --> 00:46:14.220
  • AROUND THEM ALL THE TIME, AND THEY'VE GOT TO
  • 00:46:14.240 --> 00:46:16.220
  • HAVE THE TV ON.
  • 00:46:16.240 --> 00:46:18.220
  • THEY GOT TO HAVE A BUNCH OF PEOPLE AROUND
  • 00:46:18.240 --> 00:46:20.110
  • THEM ALL THE TIME, AND SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST
  • 00:46:20.130 --> 00:46:22.020
  • SOCIAL BUTTERFLIES.
  • 00:46:22.040 --> 00:46:23.270
  • THAT'S PART OF THEIR PERSONALITY, BUT A LOT OF
  • 00:46:23.290 --> 00:46:26.030
  • TIMES PEOPLE STAY TOO BUSY TO HAVE TO
  • 00:46:26.050 --> 00:46:28.130
  • DEAL WITH THEMSELVES.
  • 00:46:28.150 --> 00:46:30.060
  • THEY JUST GO FROM THING TO THING TO THING SO THEY
  • 00:46:30.080 --> 00:46:33.070
  • DON'T HAVE TO REALLY FACE THEMSELVES.
  • 00:46:33.090 --> 00:46:36.100
  • BUT YOU NEED TO BECOME A FRIEND TO YOURSELF, AND
  • 00:46:36.120 --> 00:46:38.220
  • DON'T ALWAYS BE WAITING FOR SOMEBODY ELSE TO DO
  • 00:46:38.240 --> 00:46:40.250
  • SOMETHING FOR YOU.
  • 00:46:40.270 --> 00:46:42.210
  • IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYBODY THAT'S DOING SOMETHING
  • 00:46:42.230 --> 00:46:44.210
  • FOR YOU, THEN GO DO SOMETHING FOR
  • 00:46:44.230 --> 00:46:46.110
  • YOURSELF, YOU KNOW?
  • 00:46:46.130 --> 00:46:48.050
  • DO SOMETHING THAT -- I JUST THINK THAT'S
  • 00:46:48.070 --> 00:46:51.090
  • IMPORTANT BECAUSE YOU KNOW, MOST PEOPLE REALLY
  • 00:46:51.110 --> 00:46:54.160
  • DON'T LIKE THEMSELVES.
  • 00:46:54.180 --> 00:46:56.110
  • IF YOU GET RIGHT DOWN TO IT.
  • 00:46:56.130 --> 00:46:58.000
  • AND I FOUND OUT THAT WAS ONE OF THE THINGS THE
  • 00:46:58.020 --> 00:47:00.180
  • HOLY SPIRIT SHOWED ME IS -- I WAS A VERY
  • 00:47:00.200 --> 00:47:04.080
  • UNMERCIFUL PERSON, VERY LEGALISTIC AND I MEAN,
  • 00:47:04.100 --> 00:47:10.100
  • I WOULD HAVE MADE A GREAT PHARISEE.
  • 00:47:10.120 --> 00:47:12.130
  • YOU HAD TO DO IT MY WAY AND MY TIME,
  • 00:47:12.150 --> 00:47:14.180
  • AND I WASN'T GIVING IN.
  • 00:47:14.200 --> 00:47:18.050
  • AND WHEN I STARTED REALLY PRAYING ABOUT, GOD, I
  • 00:47:18.070 --> 00:47:20.060
  • WANT TO BE MERCIFUL TO PEOPLE, BUT I DON'T
  • 00:47:20.080 --> 00:47:21.240
  • SEEM TO BE ABLE TO.
  • 00:47:21.260 --> 00:47:23.140
  • AND WHAT HE SHOWED ME IS, WELL, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW
  • 00:47:23.160 --> 00:47:26.100
  • TO RECEIVE MERCY, AND YOU CAN'T GIVE AWAY
  • 00:47:26.120 --> 00:47:28.270
  • WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE.
  • 00:47:28.290 --> 00:47:31.110
  • THAT'S BEEN LIKE A BIG THING FOR ME WITH GOD IS
  • 00:47:31.130 --> 00:47:33.170
  • YOU CANNOT GIVE AWAY WHAT YOU DON'T HAVE.
  • 00:47:33.190 --> 00:47:35.170
  • AND HE WILL EQUIP US TO DO EVERYTHING HE WANTS US
  • 00:47:35.190 --> 00:47:39.160
  • TO DO, BUT WE GET IT FROM HIM.
  • 00:47:39.180 --> 00:47:44.040
  • IT'S LIKE IF WE RECEIVE IT FROM HIM, THEN WE'VE
  • 00:47:44.060 --> 00:47:47.070
  • GOT IT, AND WE CAN THEN RELEASE IT,
  • 00:47:47.090 --> 00:47:50.130
  • AND HE GETS THE CREDIT. WE DON'T.
  • 00:47:50.150 --> 00:47:53.070
  • [MUSIC]
  • 00:47:53.090 --> 00:47:55.000
  • - IF YOU'RE RIGHT INSIDE, THEN YOU CAN BE
  • 00:47:55.020 --> 00:47:57.030
  • HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND YOU
  • 00:47:57.050 --> 00:47:59.130
  • BECAUSE YOUR REAL LIFE IN YOU.
  • 00:47:59.150 --> 00:48:02.280
  • [MUSIC]
  • 00:48:03.000 --> 00:48:05.130
  • - ANNOUNCER: PROVERBS 4:23 SAYS...
  • 00:48:05.150 --> 00:48:12.170
  • YOUR HEART, YOUR SOUL, IS A TREASURE AND
  • 00:48:12.190 --> 00:48:14.280
  • MUST BE PROTECTED.
  • 00:48:15.000 --> 00:48:16.240
  • YET, SO MANY WOMEN CARRY WOUNDS OF REJECTION,
  • 00:48:16.260 --> 00:48:18.250
  • BETRAYAL AND ABANDONMENT AND EVEN ABUSE.
  • 00:48:18.270 --> 00:48:21.250
  • AND WHEN WE IGNORE THE WOUNDS, TRUE FREEDOM,
  • 00:48:21.270 --> 00:48:24.060
  • REAL HEALING, IS LITERALLY IMPOSSIBLE.
  • 00:48:24.080 --> 00:48:27.010
  • BUT GOD HAS GIVEN US A WAY OUT.
  • 00:48:27.030 --> 00:48:30.250
  • IN HER BRAND NEW BOOK "HEALING THE SOUL OF A
  • 00:48:30.270 --> 00:48:34.030
  • WOMAN", HOW TO OVERCOME YOUR EMOTIONAL WOUNDS,
  • 00:48:34.050 --> 00:48:36.090
  • JOYCE MEYER IS TRANSPARENT AND REVEALS
  • 00:48:36.110 --> 00:48:39.060
  • HER OWN JOURNEY OF HURT TO HEALING, AND HOW YOU
  • 00:48:39.080 --> 00:48:41.170
  • CAN EXPERIENCE THE SAME AMAZING FREEDOM.
  • 00:48:41.190 --> 00:48:45.180
  • - IT'S VERY PAINFUL AND DIFFICULT TO GO THROUGH
  • 00:48:45.200 --> 00:48:48.080
  • LIFE WITH A WOUNDED SOUL, BUT I LEARNED THAT GOD
  • 00:48:48.100 --> 00:48:51.030
  • COULD HEAL EVEN MY DEEPEST HURTS IF I WOULD
  • 00:48:51.050 --> 00:48:53.170
  • JUST OPEN MY HEART UP AND LET HIM IN.
  • 00:48:53.190 --> 00:48:56.110
  • - THIS MONTH, TBN WANTS TO PLACE THIS
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  • JUST-RELEASED BOOK IN YOUR HANDS AS A THANK YOU
  • 00:48:59.010 --> 00:49:01.040
  • FOR YOUR GIFT OF SUPPORT.
  • 00:49:01.060 --> 00:49:02.260
  • ALSO, IN APPRECIATION FOR YOUR SPECIAL GIFT OF $125
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  • OR MORE, WE'LL INCLUDE THIS COMPREHENSIVE
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  • "HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN" BOXED BUNDLE THAT
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  • FEATURES THE COMPANION CD, DVD, TEACHING SERIES
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  • ALONG WITH JOYS' CLASSIC SERIES "BEAUTY FOR ASHES"
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  • ON AUDIO AND VIDEO ALONG WITH HER BEAUTY FOR
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  • ASHES STUDY GUIDE.
  • 00:49:21.240 --> 00:49:23.220
  • - I BELIEVE THAT GOD WANTS TO DO A MIRACLE FOR
  • 00:49:23.240 --> 00:49:27.090
  • YOU, AND HE WANTS TO RESTORE YOUR SOUL.
  • 00:49:27.110 --> 00:49:30.180
  • - AND AS A BONUS, WE'LL SEND YOU THE "WHAT ARE
  • 00:49:30.200 --> 00:49:33.080
  • YOU GOING TO BELIEVE?"
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  • HARD COVER BOOK WHICH HELPS YOU IDENTIFY AND
  • 00:49:35.250 --> 00:49:37.140
  • REPLACE IMBEDDED LIES OF THE ENEMY IN YOUR MIND
  • 00:49:37.160 --> 00:49:39.070
  • WITH LIFE-GIVING BIBLICAL TRUTH.
  • 00:49:39.090 --> 00:49:41.280
  • TAKE A MOMENT RIGHT NOW TO CALL OR GO SECURELY
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  • ONLINE TO GIVE YOUR GIFT OF SUPPORT AND
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  • REQUEST YOUR RESOURCES.
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  • LET JOYCE MEYER TAKE YOU TO NEW LEVELS OF FREEDOM
  • 00:49:49.140 --> 00:49:51.280
  • AND HEALING FOR YOUR MIND AND EMOTIONS.
  • 00:49:52.000 --> 00:49:53.180
  • AND AS YOU DO, YOU'LL ENABLE TBN TO TAKE THE
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  • MESSAGE OF HOPE AND GRACE TO THE WORLD.
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  • PLEASE CALL, CLICK, OR WRITE US TODAY.
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  • [MUSIC]
  • 00:50:00.250 --> 00:50:09.100
  • - HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN, AND IF YOU DO THIS
  • 00:50:09.120 --> 00:50:12.160
  • RIGHT HERE, IT'S HEALING THE SOUL OF A MAN, IS
  • 00:50:12.180 --> 00:50:17.040
  • KIND OF WINDING DOWN.
  • 00:50:17.060 --> 00:50:18.290
  • WE'VE GOT ABOUT FIVE MINUTES LEFT IN THIS
  • 00:50:19.010 --> 00:50:21.110
  • BROADCAST, AND WHAT I WOULD LOVE TO DO, JOYCE,
  • 00:50:21.130 --> 00:50:24.040
  • IF YOU WOULD, JUST TWO THINGS.
  • 00:50:24.060 --> 00:50:26.090
  • HOW DO WE KIND OF PUT A NICE LITTLE
  • 00:50:26.110 --> 00:50:30.240
  • CONCLUSION ON THIS?
  • 00:50:30.260 --> 00:50:32.170
  • AND PRAY FOR THE AUDIENCE THAT WE WOULD BE ABLE TO
  • 00:50:32.190 --> 00:50:36.210
  • HEAR WHAT'S RIGHT FOR THEM RIGHT NOW BECAUSE OF
  • 00:50:36.230 --> 00:50:38.220
  • THAT TIMING THING.
  • 00:50:38.240 --> 00:50:40.220
  • YOU'VE REALLY DRILLED THAT DOWN, THAT THERE'S A
  • 00:50:40.240 --> 00:50:45.120
  • A RHYTHM TO WHAT WE'RE SUPPOSED TO DO AND THAT
  • 00:50:45.140 --> 00:50:47.210
  • ONE SIZE DOES NOT FIT ALL.
  • 00:50:47.230 --> 00:50:50.090
  • SO JUST KIND OF PUT A LITTLE BIT OF A WRAP UP
  • 00:50:50.110 --> 00:50:54.280
  • ON THIS, A BIT OF A PRAYER, AND THEN KIND OF
  • 00:50:55.000 --> 00:50:57.190
  • GET YOUR FINAL THOUGHTS.
  • 00:50:57.210 --> 00:50:59.190
  • - YOU HAVE TO REALIZE THAT WHATEVER PATH GOD
  • 00:50:59.210 --> 00:51:04.290
  • TAKES YOU DOWN, AND I CAN'T TELL YOU WHAT
  • 00:51:05.010 --> 00:51:07.120
  • THAT'S GOING TO BE, I CAN TELL YOU THAT HE'S
  • 00:51:07.140 --> 00:51:10.010
  • FAITHFUL, AND HE WILL NOT LET YOU DOWN.
  • 00:51:10.030 --> 00:51:13.150
  • IF YOU ASK GOD TO HELP YOU IN THIS, AND YOU'RE
  • 00:51:13.170 --> 00:51:15.200
  • WILLING TO DO WHAT HE SHOWS YOU WHO TO DO, THEN
  • 00:51:15.220 --> 00:51:18.270
  • YOU WILL MAKE PROGRESS A LITTLE BIT AT A TIME.
  • 00:51:18.290 --> 00:51:24.270
  • WHY A LITTLE BIT AT A TIME?
  • 00:51:24.290 --> 00:51:27.110
  • I DON'T KNOW, BUT GOD DOESN'T GET IN A BIG
  • 00:51:27.130 --> 00:51:28.290
  • HURRY ABOUT THINGS.
  • 00:51:29.010 --> 00:51:30.160
  • HE TAKES HIS GOOD OLD TIME ABOUT ALMOST
  • 00:51:30.180 --> 00:51:32.150
  • EVERYTHING THAT HE DOES, BUT WHEN HE DOES
  • 00:51:32.170 --> 00:51:35.030
  • SOMETHING, HE DOES IT RIGHT.
  • 00:51:35.050 --> 00:51:36.260
  • AND SO GOING INTO THIS, YOU HAVE TO MAKE YOUR
  • 00:51:36.280 --> 00:51:40.100
  • MIND UP THIS IS NOT GOING TO BE A QUICK FIX,
  • 00:51:40.120 --> 00:51:44.040
  • OVERNIGHT, DRIVE THROUGH HEALING.
  • 00:51:44.060 --> 00:51:47.130
  • AND IF YOUR SOUL IS RIPE, IF YOUR MIND -- IF YOU
  • 00:51:47.150 --> 00:51:52.080
  • CAN THINK PROPERLY ACCORDING TO THE WORD, IF
  • 00:51:52.100 --> 00:51:54.180
  • YOU CAN OWN YOUR EMOTIONS INSTEAD OF LETTING THEM
  • 00:51:54.200 --> 00:51:57.230
  • OWN YOU, YOU'RE ALWAYS GOING TO HAVE FEELINGS,
  • 00:51:57.250 --> 00:52:00.070
  • BUT THE DIFFERENCE IS YOU DON'T HAVE TO ALWAYS ACT
  • 00:52:00.090 --> 00:52:02.130
  • ON EVERY FEELING THAT YOU HAVE.
  • 00:52:02.150 --> 00:52:04.100
  • AND IF YOU CAN MAKE WILLFUL DECISIONS
  • 00:52:04.120 --> 00:52:07.060
  • ACCORDING TO THE WORD OF GOD, NO MATTER WHAT'S
  • 00:52:07.080 --> 00:52:10.100
  • GOING ON OUTSIDE IN YOUR LIFE -- YOU MAY NEED MONEY.
  • 00:52:10.120 --> 00:52:14.130
  • YOU MAY WANT TO BE MARRIED, AND YOU'RE NOT MARRIED.
  • 00:52:14.150 --> 00:52:16.250
  • YOU MAY HAVE PEOPLE THAT YOU'RE DEALING WITH THAT
  • 00:52:16.270 --> 00:52:19.180
  • ARE DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH.
  • 00:52:19.200 --> 00:52:21.280
  • YOU MIGHT HAVE A TOUGH JOB OF THE YOU COULD
  • 00:52:22.000 --> 00:52:23.110
  • EVEN BE IN PRISON.
  • 00:52:23.130 --> 00:52:25.040
  • BUT IF YOU'RE RIGHT INSIDE, THEN YOU CAN BE
  • 00:52:25.060 --> 00:52:27.190
  • HAPPY NO MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND YOU
  • 00:52:27.210 --> 00:52:30.040
  • BECAUSE YOUR REAL LIFE IS IN YOU.
  • 00:52:30.060 --> 00:52:33.200
  • IT'S NOT YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES.
  • 00:52:33.220 --> 00:52:36.140
  • YOUR REAL LIFE IS IN YOU.
  • 00:52:36.160 --> 00:52:38.100
  • SO PLEASE, PLEASE GIVE GOD A CHANCE. LET'S PRAY.
  • 00:52:38.120 --> 00:52:42.230
  • FATHER, I PRAY IN JESUS' NAME THAT EVERYBODY
  • 00:52:42.250 --> 00:52:45.240
  • WATCHING WHO HAS A WOUNDED SOUL WILL LET YOU
  • 00:52:45.260 --> 00:52:48.200
  • IN, THAT THEY WON'T HOLD ANY DOORS CLOSED, NO
  • 00:52:48.220 --> 00:52:52.140
  • SECRET PLACES ANYMORE, THAT THEY WILL LET YOU
  • 00:52:52.160 --> 00:52:57.150
  • IN, AND THAT THOSE WHO HAVE NOT RECEIVED YOU AS
  • 00:52:57.170 --> 00:53:01.000
  • SAVIOR WILL CALL I'M SURE THE NUMBER THAT'S ON THE
  • 00:53:01.020 --> 00:53:04.290
  • SCREEN RIGHT NOW, PRAY WITH SOMEBODY OR PRAY
  • 00:53:05.010 --> 00:53:07.160
  • THEMSELVES, REPENT OF THEIR SINS AND ASK YOU
  • 00:53:07.180 --> 00:53:11.160
  • INTO THEIR HEART.
  • 00:53:11.180 --> 00:53:13.100
  • AND I PRAY THAT WOULD YOU BEGIN A HEALING IN THEM
  • 00:53:13.120 --> 00:53:16.280
  • THAT WOULD JUST COMPLETELY
  • 00:53:17.000 --> 00:53:18.270
  • REVOLUTIONIZE THEIR LIFE.
  • 00:53:18.290 --> 00:53:21.040
  • AND I PRAY FOR THEM THAT THEY WON'T GIVE UP UNTIL
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  • IT'S COMPLETELY DONE. IN JESUS' NAME, AMEN.
  • 00:53:24.250 --> 00:53:28.120
  • - BEAUTIFUL. "HEALING THE SOUL OF A WOMAN" IS WHAT WE ARE
  • 00:53:28.140 --> 00:53:32.280
  • DISCUSSING AND UNPACKING, AND I'M GOING TO ASK YOU
  • 00:53:33.000 --> 00:53:37.070
  • A QUESTION AND ANSWER IT, IN CASE WE EVEN HAVE TO
  • 00:53:37.090 --> 00:53:42.200
  • EDIT SOMETHING ELSE BECAUSE I WANT TO ASK IT
  • 00:53:42.220 --> 00:53:45.020
  • BECAUSE IT FEELS LIKE WHAT THE TAKE AWAY FOR ME
  • 00:53:45.040 --> 00:53:49.000
  • IS IS THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT AND YOUR HEALING
  • 00:53:49.020 --> 00:53:52.080
  • IS, FIRST OF ALL WORK.
  • 00:53:52.100 --> 00:53:54.230
  • WE ALWAYS WANT GOD TO DO SOMETHING FOR US OR TO
  • 00:53:54.250 --> 00:53:57.080
  • US, AND WE DON'T WANT TO JUST DO THE HARD
  • 00:53:57.100 --> 00:53:59.290
  • WORK AND GET FIXED.
  • 00:54:00.030 --> 00:54:02.080
  • SO I WAS WATCHING SOMETHING NOT LONG AGO,
  • 00:54:02.100 --> 00:54:05.290
  • AND I HEARD THIS TERM "SAME DAY SEED" WHICH
  • 00:54:06.010 --> 00:54:10.080
  • SEEMED TO BE TRYING TO SHORTCUT SOMETHING.
  • 00:54:10.100 --> 00:54:14.200
  • GIVE NOW, AND THERE'S THIS SAME DAY SEED.
  • 00:54:14.220 --> 00:54:17.210
  • SO THAT IS NOT WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT.
  • 00:54:17.230 --> 00:54:24.290
  • - AND I DON'T THINK THAT'S REALITY.
  • 00:54:25.010 --> 00:54:27.030
  • THOSE KINDS OF STATEMENTS ACTUALLY REALLY AGGRAVATE
  • 00:54:27.050 --> 00:54:29.070
  • ME BECAUSE IT'S LIKE TELLING SOMEBODY WHEN
  • 00:54:29.090 --> 00:54:30.260
  • THEY RECEIVED CHRIST THAT THAT'S THE END OF
  • 00:54:30.280 --> 00:54:32.290
  • ALL OF THEIR PROBLEMS.
  • 00:54:33.010 --> 00:54:35.030
  • THAT IS JUST ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE.
  • 00:54:35.050 --> 00:54:37.040
  • I TELL PEOPLE THERE'S NO GUARANTEE YOU WON'T HAVE
  • 00:54:37.060 --> 00:54:39.170
  • PROBLEMS, BUT IF YOU HAVE JESUS, YOU NEVER HAVE TO
  • 00:54:39.190 --> 00:54:41.270
  • DEAL WITH THEM ALONE.
  • 00:54:41.290 --> 00:54:43.220
  • YOU ALWAYS HAVE SOMEBODY TO HELP YOU, AND YOUR
  • 00:54:43.240 --> 00:54:46.050
  • WORST DAY WITH HIM WILL BETTER THAN YOUR BEST
  • 00:54:46.070 --> 00:54:48.190
  • DAY EVER WAS WITHOUT HIM.
  • 00:54:48.210 --> 00:54:51.170
  • AND ONE OF THE CHAPTERS IS CALLED "THE PAINLESS
  • 00:54:51.190 --> 00:54:54.290
  • PATH." WE ALL LOOK FOR THAT, BUT THERE
  • 00:54:55.010 --> 00:54:57.210
  • IS NO SUCH THING.
  • 00:54:57.230 --> 00:54:59.190
  • JESUS WALKED A PATH OF PAIN, AND THERE'S A BROAD
  • 00:54:59.210 --> 00:55:02.270
  • PATH AND A NARROW PATH, AND IF YOU WANT TO LIVE
  • 00:55:02.290 --> 00:55:05.070
  • ON THE BROAD PATH, WHICH ENDS IN DESTRUCTION, YOU
  • 00:55:05.090 --> 00:55:07.200
  • CAN FIND A WAY TO NUMB YOUR PAIN, OR YOU CAN
  • 00:55:07.220 --> 00:55:12.230
  • DRUG IT AWAY OR ALCOHOL IT AWAY OR SEX IT AWAY OR
  • 00:55:12.250 --> 00:55:15.290
  • WHATEVER YOU THINK YOU DO TO END IT, BUT IT'S STILL
  • 00:55:16.010 --> 00:55:19.130
  • GOING TO BE THERE TO HAUNT YOU WHEN
  • 00:55:19.150 --> 00:55:21.120
  • YOU'RE BY YOURSELF.
  • 00:55:21.140 --> 00:55:23.250
  • AND THE THING IS IS GOD WILL DO THIS IN YOUR
  • 00:55:23.270 --> 00:55:28.140
  • LIFE, BUT IT IS WORK, AND ONE SCRIPTURE MAKES
  • 00:55:28.160 --> 00:55:31.170
  • IT VERY CLEAR, PHILIPPIANS 2:12.
  • 00:55:31.190 --> 00:55:34.210
  • "WORK OUT YOUR OWN SALVATION WITH FEAR AND
  • 00:55:34.230 --> 00:55:37.210
  • TREMBLING, NOT IN YOUR OWN STRENGTH, FOR IT IS
  • 00:55:37.230 --> 00:55:40.070
  • GOD WHO IS ALL THE WHILE AT WORK IN YOU." SO IT
  • 00:55:40.090 --> 00:55:43.290
  • DOESN'T SAY WORK FOR YOUR SALVATION.
  • 00:55:44.010 --> 00:55:45.260
  • THERE'S A FREE GIFT.
  • 00:55:45.280 --> 00:55:47.190
  • SO GOD DOWNLOADS, AT OUR SALVATION, EVERYTHING
  • 00:55:47.210 --> 00:55:51.060
  • INTO OUR SPIRIT THAT WE NEED TO LIVE AN AMAZING
  • 00:55:51.080 --> 00:55:54.170
  • LIFE, BUT IT COMES IN SEED FORM.
  • 00:55:54.190 --> 00:55:57.040
  • JESUS IS CALLED "THE SEED" CAPITAL S, OF GOD.
  • 00:55:57.060 --> 00:56:02.290
  • SO IT'S LIKE YOU BECOME PREGNANT WITH GODLINESS
  • 00:56:03.010 --> 00:56:07.070
  • WHEN YOU'RE BORN-AGAIN, BUT YOU HAVE TO
  • 00:56:07.090 --> 00:56:10.210
  • CARRY THOSE SEEDS.
  • 00:56:10.230 --> 00:56:13.150
  • YOU WATER THEM WITH THE WORD.
  • 00:56:13.170 --> 00:56:15.070
  • YOU LET GOD GET THE WEEDS OUT OF YOUR LIFE, AND WE
  • 00:56:15.090 --> 00:56:17.230
  • BECOME LIKE HIS GARDEN, AND HE'S THE CHIEF GARDENER.
  • 00:56:17.250 --> 00:56:21.170
  • SO YOU LET HIM DO THAT, AND YOU WORK THAT OUT.
  • 00:56:21.190 --> 00:56:25.240
  • YOU LET IT BE WORKED FROM IN YOU OUT THROUGH YOUR SOUL.
  • 00:56:25.260 --> 00:56:30.170
  • AND THEN EVENTUALLY, THINGS LIKE THIS, LIKE
  • 00:56:30.190 --> 00:56:33.290
  • WE'RE DOING RIGHT NOW, NOW YOU HAVE A CHANGED
  • 00:56:34.010 --> 00:56:38.140
  • LIFE, AND PEOPLE SEE THAT, AND THEY'RE LIKE, IT HAS TO BE GOD.
  • 00:56:38.160 --> 00:56:42.200
  • - BEAUTIFUL. - IT HAS TO BE GOD.
  • 00:56:42.220 --> 00:56:44.250
  • - ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL.
  • 00:56:44.270 --> 00:56:46.190
  • SAME DAY SEED WOULD BE REACHING INTO THE GROUND
  • 00:56:46.210 --> 00:56:48.220
  • AND PULLING THE SAME SEED OUT.
  • 00:56:48.240 --> 00:56:50.040
  • - IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY SENSE.
  • 00:56:50.060 --> 00:56:51.160
  • - IT DOESN'T EVEN MAKE ANY SENSE.
  • 00:56:51.180 --> 00:56:53.010
  • "HEALING FOR THE SOUL OF A WOMAN", AND HEALING THE
  • 00:56:53.030 --> 00:56:57.150
  • SOUL OF A MAN IS THE BOOK, AND WE'VE BEEN
  • 00:56:57.170 --> 00:57:01.150
  • UNPACKING IT NEW YORK TIMES NUMBER ONE
  • 00:57:01.170 --> 00:57:03.160
  • BEST-SELLING AUTHOR JOYCE MEYER.
  • 00:57:03.180 --> 00:57:06.190
  • WE'LL SEE YOU NEXT TIME.
  • 00:57:06.210 --> 00:57:08.020
  • THANK YOU, JOYCE.
  • 00:57:08.040 --> 00:57:09.230
  • - THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HAVING ME.
  • 00:57:09.250 --> 00:57:10.270
  • - AND WHAT A BEAUTIFUL PLACE.
  • 00:57:10.290 --> 00:57:12.070
  • THIS IS THE ATLANTIC OCEAN UP HERE.
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  • WE'LL SEE YOU NEXT TIME, BYE BYE.
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